The wedding reception was in fact an integral part of the marriage ceremony, and is a convivial moment of considerable importance. For simple or magnificent that they choose to do the marriage in fact, this will never be concluded without the supply of food: the ritual of sharing a meal has ancient roots, and it is customary in many religious ceremonies, such as Christian, Jewish, where the intake of food is a symbol of communion and fraternity. Even at the time of the ancient Romans the wedding reception was an indispensable symbol, the ritual was not considered legal until the nouveau spouses not breaking bread and eating with their guests. Factors to consider in organizing the wedding reception The place of receipt should first reflect the style, tone and atmosphere you have given to the entire marriage, then in harmony with the ceremony, flowers, the dress of the bride and the bridegroom's dress worn. Unlike other choices, made guided solely by their taste, style and way of being, the choice of place of receipt is also influenced by other factors. Established the budget is also necessary to consider: * Distance from the site of the ceremony. The council is not too away from the place where he performs the ritual of marriage as a route to get to the wedding reception longer than 30-40 minutes may tire and discourage many of the guests. * Number of guests. This impatterà first budget available per person, and then the size of the place you choose. * Nature of guests. The wedding reception is a party and as such must be organized in mind that all visitors must be at ease. For example, if there is a predominance of young, our advice is to provide musical entertainment: the place chosen need, therefore, a great without forgetting an oasis of tranquility for grandparents. If will be the elderly to dominate, you should choose a more peaceful and easily accessible place: to exclude, for example, parties dancing on a beach or rooms connected by long staircases. Also the number of children who will be present at the reception: if numerous, for example, in this case will be important to have salt easy to reach (for easy movement of wheelchairs and strollers) and perhaps an area dedicated to them with possibly a baby sitter. * Place Where are the guests. If there will be many guests who arrive from other cities, will be important to choose a site for the wedding feast near facilities where they will stay after the reception. Especially in the afternoon ceremony is to be taken into consideration that the guests will also entertain for the night. * Date of marriage. A wedding reception will be held outdoors only during the months in which you are sure to have good weather, taking into account, however, that if it is in summer will be necessary to provide a cover for the hottest hours. * Hours of marriage. That the wedding reception is a buffet, lunch or dinner of the fixed depends on where the ceremony takes place. If it was summer and afternoon, for example, is largely the informal fashion "dejuner sur l'herbe". Choosing the location of marriage Once the wedding reception took place in the family home of the bride. Today, different areas of housing and modern habits make it hard this solution, although it remains one of the most full of emotional ties for weddings. The options for choosing the location of the wedding are: * The house of one of the two spouses or made available by a relative or a friend. As a city, sea, countryside, mountain, in short, we need a home that has space that is suitable to properly accommodate a considerable number of people. Having the opportunity, this remains one of the solutions that allows for a more intimate and personal * A historic castle. Within a wonderful room of one of these castles, towers and walls with battlements, you can relive a princely marriage, fabulous in a charming and magical. Here the table decorations will be valuable and elegant. And if the wedding reception takes place at night, you can impress your guests with beautiful play of light, like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes did at Castello Odescalchi in Bracciano. Other well-known castle for a wedding vip is the Crescenza, near Rome, chosen by Francesco Totti and Ilari Blasi. * An ancient noble Palace. Simple, elegant, an ancient building definitely has an elegant solution which is the greater. Emanuele Filiberto and Clotilde Courau chose for example Palazzo Ruspoli in Rome for their wedding dinner. * A vintage Villa. The villa is ideal for a wedding reception at the same time formal and romantic. The great advantage of these facilities is the ability to exploit the wide spaces, large lawns, where a good company will provide catering curtains, pavilions, pagodas, "sails" supported by subsidies. A wedding reception outdoors is an effective and evocative are legendary marriage of Zeus and was in the famous garden of the Hesperides, home of paradise and of eternal spring. * A farmhouse in the countryside, a farm or a farm. These beautiful structures, often equipped with swimming pools, have the width of the spaces outside the villa of similar age, even allowing them an outdoor reception, but by freeing formalisms who wants to do a wedding reception without too much splendor and label. * Restaurants and Hotels. Have always been the place where most classic play wedding reception. Depending on the tone that you give at the event, you can tour the luxury restaurant that sophisticated, the restaurant features, a clubhouse, a room of a circle which has members. Many of these restaurants are located in places evocative and unforgettable, as in the sea or a lake. All these choices are classic alongside other more original: a celebration on a beach on the seashore, a barbecue in a park, a festival on a cruise ship, a reception deep in a mountain hut. Much fashion today are also marriages on the beaches of tropical islands, with dancing and celebrations typical. Some couples prefer a ritual for marriage and underwear collected, reserved for friends and relatives very close and then pump magna celebrate in total freedom in a few days later, with a big party open to a large number of people. Some, however, prefer to have many present and participating in the ceremony, and instead make a wedding reception more intimate, for the few. Some couples also choose instead a compromise solution between the two: the ceremony will involve several invited, but, while not participating in the wedding banquet, which will be restricted to a few intimate, you riaggregheranno spouses in the evening for a party open to all friends. | ||
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martedì 28 ottobre 2008
The wedding reception: choice of place and style
Etiquette of marriage: what touches the bride and what touches the bridegroom
Whatever the choice of the rite of marriage tone, style of the ceremony, the reception and catering, costs to be addressed in order to organize the wedding day will be very high.
In the past, since Roman times, marriage was an opportunity to show off its wealth, and this desire for luxury and pomp often led families to fill the debts and then to ruin. Throughout history, in more than one occasion, were then issued decrees to set limits to these wastes.
Even today many marriages are made in this light, with costs and fortune with hundreds of invited only to be spectators of theater without feeling: good taste and manners off the excesses, every choice must be made with style and finesse and appropriate to the place where the marriage takes place, the type of guests present and the economic opportunities of the spouses.
The families of the couple as they can contribute to the costs to be addressed.
The etiquette of marriage however specifies clearly what are the costs faced by parents of the future bride and groom future.
Her family to enjoy:
* Costs of printing and sending the invitations, and stakes acknowledgments;
* Wedding and confetti;
* Purchase dell'Abate wedding;
* Preparation of support;
* Expenses of the ceremony, including dell'addobbo flower is the Church of receipt;
* Quote for the Church;
* Dresses of damigelle and paggetti;
* Transportation for the bride and his entourage;
* Costs of receipt;
* Music;
* Expenses for the photo.
* Purchase of furniture in the bedroom, with the exception of the mattress.
The bridegroom's family to enjoy instead:
* Purchase of the matrimonial home;
* Furnishing of the matrimonial home except the bedroom;
* Mattress for the bedroom;
* ring wedding;
* Bouquet;
* Flowers for lead story for him and for witnesses;
* Car for which he is conducting its own witnesses at the celebration ceremony;
* The honeymoon.
In reality today, given the excessive costs especially for the purchase of the house, often the two families split the costs.
Very often, in addition, the spouses agree to be giving the honeymoon from friends.
In the past, since Roman times, marriage was an opportunity to show off its wealth, and this desire for luxury and pomp often led families to fill the debts and then to ruin. Throughout history, in more than one occasion, were then issued decrees to set limits to these wastes.
Even today many marriages are made in this light, with costs and fortune with hundreds of invited only to be spectators of theater without feeling: good taste and manners off the excesses, every choice must be made with style and finesse and appropriate to the place where the marriage takes place, the type of guests present and the economic opportunities of the spouses.
The families of the couple as they can contribute to the costs to be addressed.
The etiquette of marriage however specifies clearly what are the costs faced by parents of the future bride and groom future.
Her family to enjoy:
* Costs of printing and sending the invitations, and stakes acknowledgments;
* Wedding and confetti;
* Purchase dell'Abate wedding;
* Preparation of support;
* Expenses of the ceremony, including dell'addobbo flower is the Church of receipt;
* Quote for the Church;
* Dresses of damigelle and paggetti;
* Transportation for the bride and his entourage;
* Costs of receipt;
* Music;
* Expenses for the photo.
* Purchase of furniture in the bedroom, with the exception of the mattress.
The bridegroom's family to enjoy instead:
* Purchase of the matrimonial home;
* Furnishing of the matrimonial home except the bedroom;
* Mattress for the bedroom;
* ring wedding;
* Bouquet;
* Flowers for lead story for him and for witnesses;
* Car for which he is conducting its own witnesses at the celebration ceremony;
* The honeymoon.
In reality today, given the excessive costs especially for the purchase of the house, often the two families split the costs.
Very often, in addition, the spouses agree to be giving the honeymoon from friends.
Dowry and support
Since the first of the twentieth families of the two promised spouses before they unite in marriage, concluded in written form the "chapters marriage", for "security of dowry, the dotante, the wife and children than to be born ... "
With this ancient instrument, dating back to the right Lombard, the family of the bride agreed and quantify the future husband the dowry, which was the "stuff" (houses, land, property, silver etc.) Or cash.
In fact, until 1975 the dowry was a baggage indispensable and mandatory for the bride and a burden necessary for fathers and brothers: not having a woman was a real tragedy, an obstacle in finding a husband. Obviously, the dowry was proportional to the possibility of the family of the bride and groom's social status which was granted. After the wedding not dowry became the property of the husband but he had only managed: his death the dowry was returned to his wife and from that moment was free to dispose of. If instead the first wife died without having made the world of children, the husband was required to return the dowry to the family of the bride. In fact, her husband was required to give his wife a "controdote" and maintaining that his wife had to serve to meet its needs.
Before the celebration of marriage, detailed descriptions and the total value of dowry and support were the subject of an act before the notary which contained:
* The promise of marriage;
* The establishment of dowry and check maritali;
* The resignation of a woman hereditary claims on assets of his family, even if this part was optional.
Often the chapters marriage was annexed a list compiled by hand by a person or family friend, capable of writing, of textiles, furniture, household items and jewelry assigned to the bride.
In 1975 the new Family Law put an end to the dowry by the future bride. But there are so many things, in what was the first dowry, which continue to be donated by both families the couple: first, according to economic opportunities, housing, then, in more fortunate cases, land, business , Villas, other important and welcome gift is the machine and then get to the family jewels, silver, diamonds. In short, even if the dowry is no longer a necessary thing, remained by the willingness of households to give continuity to their values and traditions, including the passing of material goods.
As for the outfit in the past for each daughter is the beginning of embroidery fabrics since they were girls: what happened in all families, regardless from social, that influence only on the size and wealth of tissues. The pieces were 12 or multiples of 12, stored in wooden chests and detailed written on a list. One outfit consisted of one part per household and personal. In a middle class family, for example, support for the home was generally made up 24 sheets of pure double hand-embroidered linen, 24 simple, 36 pairs of pillow, 12 linen canvas of Holland 6 for most guests, 12 tablecloths most of organza 6 for every day and so forth. The party leaders included staff instead of linen, nightdresses silk, canvas jackets, capes, handkerchiefs and so on.
Today remains in the traditions of the family wanting to make a gift to future spouses with sheets, towels and tablecloths, both new and being part of an old outfit passed from generation to help in expense to be addressed for the new house. Unlike the past, where an abundant support was justified by the fact that it can not do often bucati, so we needed so many parts, and spaces of the house very large, today before choosing linens will be necessary to take into account not only the style furniture, but also the capacity of the house and cabinets.
Therefore, we recommend that you choose four or five pairs of sheets, two more valuable, three or four tablecloths "important" but at least the same number to be used every day, towels preferably sponge, because most practical, coordinated with the colors the bathroom.
With this ancient instrument, dating back to the right Lombard, the family of the bride agreed and quantify the future husband the dowry, which was the "stuff" (houses, land, property, silver etc.) Or cash.
In fact, until 1975 the dowry was a baggage indispensable and mandatory for the bride and a burden necessary for fathers and brothers: not having a woman was a real tragedy, an obstacle in finding a husband. Obviously, the dowry was proportional to the possibility of the family of the bride and groom's social status which was granted. After the wedding not dowry became the property of the husband but he had only managed: his death the dowry was returned to his wife and from that moment was free to dispose of. If instead the first wife died without having made the world of children, the husband was required to return the dowry to the family of the bride. In fact, her husband was required to give his wife a "controdote" and maintaining that his wife had to serve to meet its needs.
Before the celebration of marriage, detailed descriptions and the total value of dowry and support were the subject of an act before the notary which contained:
* The promise of marriage;
* The establishment of dowry and check maritali;
* The resignation of a woman hereditary claims on assets of his family, even if this part was optional.
Often the chapters marriage was annexed a list compiled by hand by a person or family friend, capable of writing, of textiles, furniture, household items and jewelry assigned to the bride.
In 1975 the new Family Law put an end to the dowry by the future bride. But there are so many things, in what was the first dowry, which continue to be donated by both families the couple: first, according to economic opportunities, housing, then, in more fortunate cases, land, business , Villas, other important and welcome gift is the machine and then get to the family jewels, silver, diamonds. In short, even if the dowry is no longer a necessary thing, remained by the willingness of households to give continuity to their values and traditions, including the passing of material goods.
As for the outfit in the past for each daughter is the beginning of embroidery fabrics since they were girls: what happened in all families, regardless from social, that influence only on the size and wealth of tissues. The pieces were 12 or multiples of 12, stored in wooden chests and detailed written on a list. One outfit consisted of one part per household and personal. In a middle class family, for example, support for the home was generally made up 24 sheets of pure double hand-embroidered linen, 24 simple, 36 pairs of pillow, 12 linen canvas of Holland 6 for most guests, 12 tablecloths most of organza 6 for every day and so forth. The party leaders included staff instead of linen, nightdresses silk, canvas jackets, capes, handkerchiefs and so on.
Today remains in the traditions of the family wanting to make a gift to future spouses with sheets, towels and tablecloths, both new and being part of an old outfit passed from generation to help in expense to be addressed for the new house. Unlike the past, where an abundant support was justified by the fact that it can not do often bucati, so we needed so many parts, and spaces of the house very large, today before choosing linens will be necessary to take into account not only the style furniture, but also the capacity of the house and cabinets.
Therefore, we recommend that you choose four or five pairs of sheets, two more valuable, three or four tablecloths "important" but at least the same number to be used every day, towels preferably sponge, because most practical, coordinated with the colors the bathroom.
The Witnesses wedding
The witness an important role, both legal and emotional, central figure around which rotates the celebration of marriage. Generally is a close relative, a brother or sister, a dear friend: in short, a person who plays a key role in your life for individuals and couples, and you want to be on your way married for life. Yes ... because the witnesses are called to be the moral and legal guardians of your marital union and soundness, to be practical and spiritual guide of the future family.
Whether for marriage for civil and religious marriage the number requested by law is two, one for the groom and one for the bride, but can be increased at will if you want to prioritize more people with this honor. Usually, there is a rites with two or three witnesses, if the priest who celebrated the ceremony has no objection.
Institutional tasks of a witness are:
* Putting his signature at the end of the rite, which demonstrates the correctness and authenticity of the celebration occurred;
* Keep faiths during the ceremony and then pass them to the priest, in the case of Catholic ritual or mixed, or spouse, if civil ceremony, when required;
* Deliver an offer to the priest at the end of the ceremony.
Witnesses will also seek to help and assist in preparing the couple also morally and, not least in the case of friends to take in hand the organization directions to celibacy or single.
The choice of witnesses is an important and delicate question: in addition to the formal, you must provide a meeting place for people to ask officially chosen to fill this role. This should happen well in advance about the date of the wedding, so as to allow time for them to think about it and eventually you fall to the choice on another expensive.
It 'important to bear in mind also that some people, combined with future spouses from a very strong bond, could during the ceremony be too affected to cover the event with ease needed an official role: choosing and then require them to hide their emotion to be adapted to circumstances.
Whoever is chosen should be proud of honor that receives and, if accepted, will assume the commitment that is not only the formal, but above all taking responsibility to help the couple in the growth and life, first giving a good example . If the witnesses are children or spouses of peers, the choice of witnessing is a way to link the couple so indissoluble.
Traditionally, the witnesses will make the couple married an important gift, as distinguished from the other guests. This could possibly put in a difficult choice: if you know in economic difficulties, talk openly clarify that there have in front of the priest or the officer of civil status with you is more important than any gift. E 'usual also that one of the witnesses wedding gifts the couple faiths, whose choice is still to future spouses.
Especially in the past chose the more witnesses on the appropriateness and form the bonds of affection: a witness "important" gave prestige to marriage and, if wealthy, always meant a substantial wedding gift. This was also a way to publicly recognize the authority, and then use him in future, if you need medical help.
Whether for marriage for civil and religious marriage the number requested by law is two, one for the groom and one for the bride, but can be increased at will if you want to prioritize more people with this honor. Usually, there is a rites with two or three witnesses, if the priest who celebrated the ceremony has no objection.
Institutional tasks of a witness are:
* Putting his signature at the end of the rite, which demonstrates the correctness and authenticity of the celebration occurred;
* Keep faiths during the ceremony and then pass them to the priest, in the case of Catholic ritual or mixed, or spouse, if civil ceremony, when required;
* Deliver an offer to the priest at the end of the ceremony.
Witnesses will also seek to help and assist in preparing the couple also morally and, not least in the case of friends to take in hand the organization directions to celibacy or single.
The choice of witnesses is an important and delicate question: in addition to the formal, you must provide a meeting place for people to ask officially chosen to fill this role. This should happen well in advance about the date of the wedding, so as to allow time for them to think about it and eventually you fall to the choice on another expensive.
It 'important to bear in mind also that some people, combined with future spouses from a very strong bond, could during the ceremony be too affected to cover the event with ease needed an official role: choosing and then require them to hide their emotion to be adapted to circumstances.
Whoever is chosen should be proud of honor that receives and, if accepted, will assume the commitment that is not only the formal, but above all taking responsibility to help the couple in the growth and life, first giving a good example . If the witnesses are children or spouses of peers, the choice of witnessing is a way to link the couple so indissoluble.
Traditionally, the witnesses will make the couple married an important gift, as distinguished from the other guests. This could possibly put in a difficult choice: if you know in economic difficulties, talk openly clarify that there have in front of the priest or the officer of civil status with you is more important than any gift. E 'usual also that one of the witnesses wedding gifts the couple faiths, whose choice is still to future spouses.
Especially in the past chose the more witnesses on the appropriateness and form the bonds of affection: a witness "important" gave prestige to marriage and, if wealthy, always meant a substantial wedding gift. This was also a way to publicly recognize the authority, and then use him in future, if you need medical help.
Catholic rite of marriage, documents required and premarital course
The choice of celebrating their marriage as the Catholic rite was, until recently, plus a choice, an agreement to meet.
Today, following the increasing number of civil unions and cohabitation, the choice of celebrating the sacrament seems more conscious, more rational within the couple.
For the religious marriage is prudent to begin to practice, and the collection of documents required at least 6 months before the desired date. That timeframe could further stretch where the church is not the choice of parish membership of one of the two future spouses, or in cases where there are special dispensations necessary.
The course premarital
The practice of marriage starts with the choice of the parish at which you will follow the premarital course, the oath will be posted and religious publications. The parish will be to her, to him or related to the residence where the nouveau going to live sposi. Even if you marry elsewhere, is the pastor of one of these churches to do the practice.
The course of premarital preparation for the sacrament lasts about two months and consists of a dozen meetings between couples about to marry and the parish priest of choice, often with assistance of educators and other community couples already married. Today those courses tend to be technical, made of recipes or instructions for use, but focused on trying to understand the meaning of marriage, on a path to do pair and group putting questions that often do not have the time to arise, for example about the meaning of life of a new family. For many the course of preparation for marriage is an opportunity for renewal of a relationship that was interrupted after the catechism youth, perhaps for commitments to study or work: the premarital course is therefore often have to give not only the sense of marriage but the sense of the life of faith, to address an adult catechism, other than that left by children in the preparation of Communion. Many pairs, avvicinatesi initially in preparation for marriage with suspicion, sometimes only ready to pay the toll of these meetings that it was "obliged to do", in addition to many other commitments to do to prepare for marriage, were found to change attitude as a result of these interventions that can address the marriage and one person in more depth.
Oath and promise of marriage - Documents required
For the oath in front of the priest, about ninety days from the date of marriage, the future spouses will meet with the priest for marriage and the practice should have the following certificates in paper:
- Certificate of baptism to use marriage to be requested in the parish where he was baptized;
- Certificate of Confirmation to be requested in the parish where he was confirmed;
- Certificate to use contextual marriage request in the district.
Publications of marriage - Documents required
Presented these documents prospective spouses, examined separately, carry out the oath in front of the parish priest, following which the priest prepares the two religious publications (for the boyfriend of the parish and the parish's girlfriend) and gives the torque the Model ten (Model X) to make the oath and publications to the town, which provide all the formalities of the Civil Rite.
Once completed all three publications (those two Sundays after church, that the Municipality after about 30 days) the engaged deliver the three publications to the priest who will deliver them in a sealed envelope across the practice room, which will increase to Vicariate for nothing ecclesiastical prejudice if the marriage will be celebrated in a church other than that which both spouses. Al pastor of the Church chosen to be delivered all documents authenticated by the Curia, and that the couple will release the document of "religious consensus", thereby confirming the date of the wedding.
Preparation for the rite of marriage
The celebration of the marriage rite Catholic must be prepared carefully, since book from reading, playing music in church
Marriage concordatario also produces civil effects. In fact, after the religious ceremony, the officiating priest read the articles 143, 144 and 147 of the Civil Code regarding rights and obligations of married couples, the same people who are pronounced in the rite of marriage by a civil state. The marriage is then transcribed in the State Civil Registries.
From now on the family, as regards rights and duties of spouses and their relationships with their children, is controlled and regulated by the law of the Italian state, just like that of couples united in civil marriage ceremony.
The Catholic marriage is based on the indissolubility But the same: This is a sacrament based on the marriage covenant, namely the irrevocable consent by which the two spouses freely and interchangeably you give and receive. This special union of man and woman requires, and the welfare of children requires the full fidelity of the spouses as well as the indissoluble unity of the bond. Through this sacrament as spouses Catholics are committed to nurture and develop their bond of communion equality of dignity, in mutual dedication, love undivided, so associating the divine reality and human affairs between favorable or otherwise, remain faithful in body and spirit and totally exclude any adultery and divorce.
It 'important to tell the priest who celebrates the marriage, with a few days before the date of the wedding so as to enable him to prepare the necessary documentation if it is to opt for communion or separation of assets. That choice, if made after the wedding, it should be made before a notary, with associated costs.
Today, following the increasing number of civil unions and cohabitation, the choice of celebrating the sacrament seems more conscious, more rational within the couple.
For the religious marriage is prudent to begin to practice, and the collection of documents required at least 6 months before the desired date. That timeframe could further stretch where the church is not the choice of parish membership of one of the two future spouses, or in cases where there are special dispensations necessary.
The course premarital
The practice of marriage starts with the choice of the parish at which you will follow the premarital course, the oath will be posted and religious publications. The parish will be to her, to him or related to the residence where the nouveau going to live sposi. Even if you marry elsewhere, is the pastor of one of these churches to do the practice.
The course of premarital preparation for the sacrament lasts about two months and consists of a dozen meetings between couples about to marry and the parish priest of choice, often with assistance of educators and other community couples already married. Today those courses tend to be technical, made of recipes or instructions for use, but focused on trying to understand the meaning of marriage, on a path to do pair and group putting questions that often do not have the time to arise, for example about the meaning of life of a new family. For many the course of preparation for marriage is an opportunity for renewal of a relationship that was interrupted after the catechism youth, perhaps for commitments to study or work: the premarital course is therefore often have to give not only the sense of marriage but the sense of the life of faith, to address an adult catechism, other than that left by children in the preparation of Communion. Many pairs, avvicinatesi initially in preparation for marriage with suspicion, sometimes only ready to pay the toll of these meetings that it was "obliged to do", in addition to many other commitments to do to prepare for marriage, were found to change attitude as a result of these interventions that can address the marriage and one person in more depth.
Oath and promise of marriage - Documents required
For the oath in front of the priest, about ninety days from the date of marriage, the future spouses will meet with the priest for marriage and the practice should have the following certificates in paper:
- Certificate of baptism to use marriage to be requested in the parish where he was baptized;
- Certificate of Confirmation to be requested in the parish where he was confirmed;
- Certificate to use contextual marriage request in the district.
Publications of marriage - Documents required
Presented these documents prospective spouses, examined separately, carry out the oath in front of the parish priest, following which the priest prepares the two religious publications (for the boyfriend of the parish and the parish's girlfriend) and gives the torque the Model ten (Model X) to make the oath and publications to the town, which provide all the formalities of the Civil Rite.
Once completed all three publications (those two Sundays after church, that the Municipality after about 30 days) the engaged deliver the three publications to the priest who will deliver them in a sealed envelope across the practice room, which will increase to Vicariate for nothing ecclesiastical prejudice if the marriage will be celebrated in a church other than that which both spouses. Al pastor of the Church chosen to be delivered all documents authenticated by the Curia, and that the couple will release the document of "religious consensus", thereby confirming the date of the wedding.
Preparation for the rite of marriage
The celebration of the marriage rite Catholic must be prepared carefully, since book from reading, playing music in church
Marriage concordatario also produces civil effects. In fact, after the religious ceremony, the officiating priest read the articles 143, 144 and 147 of the Civil Code regarding rights and obligations of married couples, the same people who are pronounced in the rite of marriage by a civil state. The marriage is then transcribed in the State Civil Registries.
From now on the family, as regards rights and duties of spouses and their relationships with their children, is controlled and regulated by the law of the Italian state, just like that of couples united in civil marriage ceremony.
The Catholic marriage is based on the indissolubility But the same: This is a sacrament based on the marriage covenant, namely the irrevocable consent by which the two spouses freely and interchangeably you give and receive. This special union of man and woman requires, and the welfare of children requires the full fidelity of the spouses as well as the indissoluble unity of the bond. Through this sacrament as spouses Catholics are committed to nurture and develop their bond of communion equality of dignity, in mutual dedication, love undivided, so associating the divine reality and human affairs between favorable or otherwise, remain faithful in body and spirit and totally exclude any adultery and divorce.
It 'important to tell the priest who celebrates the marriage, with a few days before the date of the wedding so as to enable him to prepare the necessary documentation if it is to opt for communion or separation of assets. That choice, if made after the wedding, it should be made before a notary, with associated costs.
The choice of the marriage rite, the constraints and requirements
The wedding day is an announcement to the world by the pair for their love and their commitment, and during the celebration of the rite that spouses make this announcement.
The Italian State, in accordance with Art. 34 of the Concordat of 11 February 1929 with the Holy See, allows the coexistence of three types of ritual: the calendar, celebrated by an officer status, religious or concordatario, celebrated by a priest who will also transcribe l ' note in the register of civil status and will thus have a dual value, which is the sacrament of civil act, and finally one for couples who want to celebrate his marriage to a non-Catholic religious rite. In the latter case, a minister of religion will be authorized by a state civil and appointed by the Ministry of Justice to celebrate the rite that will be entirely governed by the Civil Code: The celebration will be in fact a variant of marriage Civil.
There are variations of these types of rites: one of these is the so-called "mixed marriage", namely the marriage contract by a Catholic party with a non-Catholic, baptized is not baptized, Normed in 1970 by Pope Paul VI. The celebration takes place anyway in a Church office with a ritual by a priest.
A marriage can also be an 'aircraft or ship flying the USA flag, because they are considered part of the national territory, and celebrated by their commanders.
If you want to celebrate a marriage abroad, it is necessary that the act is in the register of civil status at the Usa Embassy or Consulate within 5 days. We often hear talk of marriages celebrated in Las Vegas or, increasingly today, on the white beaches of the Seychelles or the Maldives.
If finally where you want to hasten the bureaucracy premarital for special reasons such as health or pregnancy advanced, you may request documents by way of summary procedure and have to go 12 days for publications and remedies provided.
The choice of the rite should be done in total agreement within the couple, in a strictly private, with no intrusions from the outside or from friends or by family members. The rite Catholic requires a deep conviction and adequate preparation, with respect for oneself and the future spouse is completely senseless to take a sacrament only form or wear a white dress with a veil! The Church, on the other hand, has recently changed the formula of the marriage involving more spouses and asking them taking a real commitment in person. Today also, none more storcerà the nose before a civil marriage only, or in case of indecision on the part of one of the two future spouses, the Catholic religion provides the Mixed Marriage, however, to allow that to take the sacrament.
Regardless of the chosen rite, the Usa imposes some restrictions in order to marry. In particular, the requirements are:
- Have at least 18 years or, with authorization from the Court of Minors, having at least 16;
- The physical aptitude for the performance of married life. That means no physical or mental illness or sexual deviations. For these reasons the marriage can be invalidated even if the other party can not prove that it was aware;
- The mental health. An interdict to infirmity of mind can not marry, ol'incapacità understand and want when contract is due to cancellation;
- Freedom of state. Ie they should not be constraints from previous marriages;
- Non belonging to the same sex;
- The lack of relationship, affinity, adoption and affiliation between the contracting marriage. The adopted children are harmonized with legitimate concerns as impediments to marriage;
- It can not marry the couple made up of two people of which one was convicted of murder or attempted of the other spouse;
- In case of mourning widow or divorce, the woman must wait 300 days from the termination of the previous marriage to avoid doubts about the paternity of any children. This term should not be expected if:
* The previous marriage was declared invalid for impotence of one of the two spouses;
* The previous marriage was not consummated;
* I spent three years of effective separation with the former spouse.
For the religious marriage, also, based on values such as the indissolubility, procreation and the obligation to educate their children in Catholic doctrine, there are other impediments that may give rise to the unlawfulness of the same family such as legal or vote religious or may simply lead to his disability, such as:
* Age;
* Impotence;
* Links previous marriage;
* Condition of the priesthood;
* Consanguinity:
* Kidnapping or murder.
In some cases, however, discussing the problem with your pastor, you can obtain a dispensation and still have access to religious marriage.
The Italian State, in accordance with Art. 34 of the Concordat of 11 February 1929 with the Holy See, allows the coexistence of three types of ritual: the calendar, celebrated by an officer status, religious or concordatario, celebrated by a priest who will also transcribe l ' note in the register of civil status and will thus have a dual value, which is the sacrament of civil act, and finally one for couples who want to celebrate his marriage to a non-Catholic religious rite. In the latter case, a minister of religion will be authorized by a state civil and appointed by the Ministry of Justice to celebrate the rite that will be entirely governed by the Civil Code: The celebration will be in fact a variant of marriage Civil.
There are variations of these types of rites: one of these is the so-called "mixed marriage", namely the marriage contract by a Catholic party with a non-Catholic, baptized is not baptized, Normed in 1970 by Pope Paul VI. The celebration takes place anyway in a Church office with a ritual by a priest.
A marriage can also be an 'aircraft or ship flying the USA flag, because they are considered part of the national territory, and celebrated by their commanders.
If you want to celebrate a marriage abroad, it is necessary that the act is in the register of civil status at the Usa Embassy or Consulate within 5 days. We often hear talk of marriages celebrated in Las Vegas or, increasingly today, on the white beaches of the Seychelles or the Maldives.
If finally where you want to hasten the bureaucracy premarital for special reasons such as health or pregnancy advanced, you may request documents by way of summary procedure and have to go 12 days for publications and remedies provided.
The choice of the rite should be done in total agreement within the couple, in a strictly private, with no intrusions from the outside or from friends or by family members. The rite Catholic requires a deep conviction and adequate preparation, with respect for oneself and the future spouse is completely senseless to take a sacrament only form or wear a white dress with a veil! The Church, on the other hand, has recently changed the formula of the marriage involving more spouses and asking them taking a real commitment in person. Today also, none more storcerà the nose before a civil marriage only, or in case of indecision on the part of one of the two future spouses, the Catholic religion provides the Mixed Marriage, however, to allow that to take the sacrament.
Regardless of the chosen rite, the Usa imposes some restrictions in order to marry. In particular, the requirements are:
- Have at least 18 years or, with authorization from the Court of Minors, having at least 16;
- The physical aptitude for the performance of married life. That means no physical or mental illness or sexual deviations. For these reasons the marriage can be invalidated even if the other party can not prove that it was aware;
- The mental health. An interdict to infirmity of mind can not marry, ol'incapacità understand and want when contract is due to cancellation;
- Freedom of state. Ie they should not be constraints from previous marriages;
- Non belonging to the same sex;
- The lack of relationship, affinity, adoption and affiliation between the contracting marriage. The adopted children are harmonized with legitimate concerns as impediments to marriage;
- It can not marry the couple made up of two people of which one was convicted of murder or attempted of the other spouse;
- In case of mourning widow or divorce, the woman must wait 300 days from the termination of the previous marriage to avoid doubts about the paternity of any children. This term should not be expected if:
* The previous marriage was declared invalid for impotence of one of the two spouses;
* The previous marriage was not consummated;
* I spent three years of effective separation with the former spouse.
For the religious marriage, also, based on values such as the indissolubility, procreation and the obligation to educate their children in Catholic doctrine, there are other impediments that may give rise to the unlawfulness of the same family such as legal or vote religious or may simply lead to his disability, such as:
* Age;
* Impotence;
* Links previous marriage;
* Condition of the priesthood;
* Consanguinity:
* Kidnapping or murder.
In some cases, however, discussing the problem with your pastor, you can obtain a dispensation and still have access to religious marriage.
The choice of day and month in which to get married: traditions and superstitions
Among the many choices to be done to get married, is a fundamental one day and the month in which a convolare wedding.
Obviously, the first factor to influence the choice will be dictated by heart: if you are people who love the warm season, in need of the sun and heat to awaken their senses and give the best of itself, certainly choose between your date the months of April and September. If you love instead of Autumn and romantic atmosphere of Winter, if the cold there is fear and snow fascinates you, choose your day between the months of October and March.
Not always, however, can only listen to the instinct more variables come into play in your choice, the first between the availability of the place where the ceremony and celebration that will take place where the reception. Just think for example that some churches in central Rome, there are waiting lists for over a year! And of course in October will be more likely to find available from the Church loved by children in June.
Another significant factor is the atmosphere of the place where you will spend the honeymoon is surely desirable not to pass the much-desired Honeymoon during the monsoon season!
Curious factor is not understate the choice of day and month when they get married are the beliefs and popular superstitions. There are many proverbs, rhymes and such a connection, some of them even contradictory .. A belief identified Monday as the day that brings good health, as propitious day dedicated to Luna, the goddess of astro and wives. Tuesday is the day of wealth safe (thus contradicting that of Venus and Mars are not married and do not start "), on Wednesday, one day very favorable, while Thursday will bring the bride of sorrows. And if for Christians Friday is the day of fasting and penance torture, and therefore not suitable for convivial moments and "goderecci", for a non-believer this is the day dedicated to Venus, the goddess of love. Saturday, the day the "most popular" by couples to celebrate their marriage for practical reasons, is considered by the popular superstition most unfortunate day for a wedding convolare. In past centuries, especially in countries, marriages are usually celebrated on Sunday, while today the priests prefer not to celebrate weddings on this day, in order to devote entirely to the faithful Sunday Mass, and, for celebrations with civil ceremony, mayors or officials Communal not available.
Even the choice of the month in which marry the popular beliefs have a lot to say.
January is a month that brings affection, kindness and faithfulness, February, the month of love, is the best way to take the crucial decision or we will regret not having done so. March "pazzerello reserve is joy that punishment, while April only joy. May not be chosen in any case, while June is the month dedicated to Juno, the goddess of love and protector of the wedding. June will also married to the good fortune to travel a lot, both for land by sea. July hard work and will work to earn a living, while August will ensure a life full of changes. September will fill the spouses of happiness and riches, while October will bring a great deal of love but at the expense of money that will toil to get there. November and December will give happiness, finally, with its snow spouses to ensure eternal love.
There should also marry on the day of the birthday of either spouses. If, instead, the two spouses were born the same day, this is absolutely the best day of the year in which convolare a wedding.
To promote the fate, marriage must be celebrated before sunset.
Obviously, the first factor to influence the choice will be dictated by heart: if you are people who love the warm season, in need of the sun and heat to awaken their senses and give the best of itself, certainly choose between your date the months of April and September. If you love instead of Autumn and romantic atmosphere of Winter, if the cold there is fear and snow fascinates you, choose your day between the months of October and March.
Not always, however, can only listen to the instinct more variables come into play in your choice, the first between the availability of the place where the ceremony and celebration that will take place where the reception. Just think for example that some churches in central Rome, there are waiting lists for over a year! And of course in October will be more likely to find available from the Church loved by children in June.
Another significant factor is the atmosphere of the place where you will spend the honeymoon is surely desirable not to pass the much-desired Honeymoon during the monsoon season!
Curious factor is not understate the choice of day and month when they get married are the beliefs and popular superstitions. There are many proverbs, rhymes and such a connection, some of them even contradictory .. A belief identified Monday as the day that brings good health, as propitious day dedicated to Luna, the goddess of astro and wives. Tuesday is the day of wealth safe (thus contradicting that of Venus and Mars are not married and do not start "), on Wednesday, one day very favorable, while Thursday will bring the bride of sorrows. And if for Christians Friday is the day of fasting and penance torture, and therefore not suitable for convivial moments and "goderecci", for a non-believer this is the day dedicated to Venus, the goddess of love. Saturday, the day the "most popular" by couples to celebrate their marriage for practical reasons, is considered by the popular superstition most unfortunate day for a wedding convolare. In past centuries, especially in countries, marriages are usually celebrated on Sunday, while today the priests prefer not to celebrate weddings on this day, in order to devote entirely to the faithful Sunday Mass, and, for celebrations with civil ceremony, mayors or officials Communal not available.
Even the choice of the month in which marry the popular beliefs have a lot to say.
January is a month that brings affection, kindness and faithfulness, February, the month of love, is the best way to take the crucial decision or we will regret not having done so. March "pazzerello reserve is joy that punishment, while April only joy. May not be chosen in any case, while June is the month dedicated to Juno, the goddess of love and protector of the wedding. June will also married to the good fortune to travel a lot, both for land by sea. July hard work and will work to earn a living, while August will ensure a life full of changes. September will fill the spouses of happiness and riches, while October will bring a great deal of love but at the expense of money that will toil to get there. November and December will give happiness, finally, with its snow spouses to ensure eternal love.
There should also marry on the day of the birthday of either spouses. If, instead, the two spouses were born the same day, this is absolutely the best day of the year in which convolare a wedding.
To promote the fate, marriage must be celebrated before sunset.
Engagement ring
The ring of betrothal gift is the symbol par excellence of the promise of marriage, a pledge of love that the future bride will wear all'anulare left hand.
In the past, in many civilizations, would-boyfriends offered an apple to the girl chosen as a declaration of love, while the ring was a gift more challenging symbol of promise for the Visigoths and Germany, for example, had value nuptial contract.
The rings are the classic lonely, the river with small brains or the "trilogy", comprises three diamond symbol of love past, present and future.
The tradition of giving a diamond engagement ring as dates back to 1477, when Archduke Maximilian of Austria gave Mary to Borgondia a gold ring dominated by bright as a promise of marriage. This tradition has remained alive real centuries and give a lonely has become almost a fixed step on the path of marriage itself: just think that today approximately 70% of future brides receive a diamond engagement ring as!
Meanings of stones for engagement ring
But you can choose other types of stone, each of which has its symbolic meaning:
Diamond: length, strength;
Rubino: ardent love;
Sapphire: loyalty;
Emerald: hope;
Aquamarine: lasting and happy marriage;
Beryl: strength of the bond of love;
Opal: sincere love.
Stones and zodiac signs
Each astrological sign is associated with one or more stones. So if the girlfriend is careful all'astrologia, the future groom may choose the ring according to these criteria:
Aries: ruby, sapphire, diamond;
Toro: emerald, rose quartz;
Twins: emerald, turquoise;
Cancer: pearl, tourmaline, rock moon;
Leone: diamond avventurina green;
Virgin: sapphire, diamond, Jasper;
Balance: emerald, opal;
Scorpio: ruby, quartz fumé;
Sagittarius: lapis lazuli;
Capricorn: garnet, onyx, malachite;
Aquarium: diamond, amethyst;
Fish: aquamarine, amethyst.
Recommendations for the purchase of The
Often the future bridegroom may give a ring of family, which then will also have an emotional value. In cases where the jewel should be bought, we would like to follow the ten rules to follow to make a good buy:
1) Fix a budget. When a boyfriend goes to buy an engagement ring, the jewelers often implicitly influence on the fact that more large diamond, the more great love for future wife. You are then much better that there be facts accounts in your pocket before you enter the store. The industry has created brilliant as a rule to spend an amount equivalent to about two of your monthly salary ... we suggest you follow your heart but especially your portfolios!
2) Be careful. When put in a foot jewelry (... something rare for men!) You will be faced with a virtually infinite choice of engagement rings: white gold, yellow gold, red gold, platinum, simple, working with developed , With a brilliant, three bright, a row of diamonds, working with a modern, ancient, traditional and so on. Will be necessary that the first day of your purchase, have done attention to the types of jewelry that every day wearing your future wife. For example, if wearing silver, gradirà certainly an engagement ring in white gold or platinum, like whether the drawings prepared, probably gradirà a ring filigree gold jewelry if very few leads, probably your choice should fall on a simple and traditional solitaire. But above all, be attentive to messages that your girlfriend will run: jewelry which falls on his attention watching a showcase of jewelry, whether it is an appreciation for his friend onto just received from her boyfriend and so on. Do not underestimate the magnitude dell'anulare finally left hand of your future spouse: the greatness of The engagement do not choose "to eye", for example, but found a way to secretly steal a ring that she does not use your for a long time or ask the future mother-in-law to do it for you.
3) Choose the stone. While generally jewelers will present a large number of rings already installed, our advice is to choose and buy the stone separately, without hype. Surely you have a large savings and also have the opportunity to see and appreciate the bare stone with all precision instruments, in addition to choose the form of brilliant. The key features that determine the value of a diamond only the so-called "4C", ie pounds (Carat) expressed in Carats (1 carat = 0.2 grams), color (Color), the cut (Cut) and Purity (Clarity) that a diamond is free of imperfections if, after an examination at 10 magnification by a qualified person in normal lighting conditions, was found devoid of "inclusions" or internal features. For more information you should visit the site www.diamondland.be. If you have a huge budget, the advice is to choose the color and purity cutting: most of inclusions, in fact, your eye will not be visible even with the precision instruments of jeweler!
4) Choose the hype. After choosing the stone, you can dedicate to the hype, however, follow the signs point 2). You can choose a simple solitaire, or you can add a filigree work, or a stone outline of the diamond, you will have to mount the stone in yellow gold, white, red, platinum or titanium.
5) Maximize your budget. If your intent is to give the future bride an engagement ring very great, but the two of your monthly salary of Section 1) are not enough, try to use the tricks. For example, ask a diamond with a size of the upper face greater: shine less, but is certainly larger. Or, try asking to see the greatness immediately carat smaller than the ones you want (0.75 instead of 1 or 1.75 instead of 2): the difference will be imperceptible to your eyes but substantial for your wallet! Or, choose a different stone from the central diamond, which can then make the engagement ring very large, however, flanked by two small bright. Even the metal of the mount will be important in order to save money: for example, use white gold instead of platinum.
6) Take a trip. In order not to break up the sea of jewels and diamonds that will present themselves in front of you not to go alone in jewelry, but let yourself be accompanied by someone who knows you well advised. Could you bring with you, for example, the mother of the future wife or sister or your best friend. If, however, fear that they can get away something and then spoil the surprise, ask to accompany your mother or your sister. In both cases, therefore, the choice of The engagement will be an excellent opportunity to settle family ties.
7) Pay attention to the certificates. E 'vital certificate of authenticity of The engagement that are going to buy, especially for the diamond. The certificate must certainly include the enhancement for the stone choice of the basic parameters for a diamond, the "4C" The certification of his greatness then, in terms of carats, its color (from D to Z) and its purity.
8) Choose a trusted jeweler. Ask for suggestions to friends and family and check if there is issued a certificate of guarantee especially on stones. Check in advance of the conditions for the right of withdrawal and the possibility of a change, if the engagement ring selected is not total satisfaction.
9) Plan purchases in advance. In fact not always come out with jewelry from the ring in hand: you must adapt it for example to finger the size of your beloved. In the case where you choose the stone separately and then mount it on the basis of your idea or plan, given time working very long. So I was planning to make your proposal of marriage in a very specific, get with the right advance.
10) Consider the idea of bringing with you the future bride. This certainly will cancel the surprise effect, but will certainly secure a shot! Many couples prefer to go together to choose the engagement ring, especially if you are a very demanding!
Tradition has it that misfortune ports at the same time buying the engagement ring and wedding faiths. It seems that bad luck ports also put finger to the faith before the wedding.
In the case of rupture of engagement, the label would like the mutual restitution of gifts and letters, then gold objects, photographs, but also any money lent by one of the two engaged to another for the furniture of the future home. Where is the man to break the relationship, the woman is allowed to keep the ring ... even though most cases you will not.
In the past, in many civilizations, would-boyfriends offered an apple to the girl chosen as a declaration of love, while the ring was a gift more challenging symbol of promise for the Visigoths and Germany, for example, had value nuptial contract.
The rings are the classic lonely, the river with small brains or the "trilogy", comprises three diamond symbol of love past, present and future.
The tradition of giving a diamond engagement ring as dates back to 1477, when Archduke Maximilian of Austria gave Mary to Borgondia a gold ring dominated by bright as a promise of marriage. This tradition has remained alive real centuries and give a lonely has become almost a fixed step on the path of marriage itself: just think that today approximately 70% of future brides receive a diamond engagement ring as!
Meanings of stones for engagement ring
But you can choose other types of stone, each of which has its symbolic meaning:
Diamond: length, strength;
Rubino: ardent love;
Sapphire: loyalty;
Emerald: hope;
Aquamarine: lasting and happy marriage;
Beryl: strength of the bond of love;
Opal: sincere love.
Stones and zodiac signs
Each astrological sign is associated with one or more stones. So if the girlfriend is careful all'astrologia, the future groom may choose the ring according to these criteria:
Aries: ruby, sapphire, diamond;
Toro: emerald, rose quartz;
Twins: emerald, turquoise;
Cancer: pearl, tourmaline, rock moon;
Leone: diamond avventurina green;
Virgin: sapphire, diamond, Jasper;
Balance: emerald, opal;
Scorpio: ruby, quartz fumé;
Sagittarius: lapis lazuli;
Capricorn: garnet, onyx, malachite;
Aquarium: diamond, amethyst;
Fish: aquamarine, amethyst.
Recommendations for the purchase of The
Often the future bridegroom may give a ring of family, which then will also have an emotional value. In cases where the jewel should be bought, we would like to follow the ten rules to follow to make a good buy:
1) Fix a budget. When a boyfriend goes to buy an engagement ring, the jewelers often implicitly influence on the fact that more large diamond, the more great love for future wife. You are then much better that there be facts accounts in your pocket before you enter the store. The industry has created brilliant as a rule to spend an amount equivalent to about two of your monthly salary ... we suggest you follow your heart but especially your portfolios!
2) Be careful. When put in a foot jewelry (... something rare for men!) You will be faced with a virtually infinite choice of engagement rings: white gold, yellow gold, red gold, platinum, simple, working with developed , With a brilliant, three bright, a row of diamonds, working with a modern, ancient, traditional and so on. Will be necessary that the first day of your purchase, have done attention to the types of jewelry that every day wearing your future wife. For example, if wearing silver, gradirà certainly an engagement ring in white gold or platinum, like whether the drawings prepared, probably gradirà a ring filigree gold jewelry if very few leads, probably your choice should fall on a simple and traditional solitaire. But above all, be attentive to messages that your girlfriend will run: jewelry which falls on his attention watching a showcase of jewelry, whether it is an appreciation for his friend onto just received from her boyfriend and so on. Do not underestimate the magnitude dell'anulare finally left hand of your future spouse: the greatness of The engagement do not choose "to eye", for example, but found a way to secretly steal a ring that she does not use your for a long time or ask the future mother-in-law to do it for you.
3) Choose the stone. While generally jewelers will present a large number of rings already installed, our advice is to choose and buy the stone separately, without hype. Surely you have a large savings and also have the opportunity to see and appreciate the bare stone with all precision instruments, in addition to choose the form of brilliant. The key features that determine the value of a diamond only the so-called "4C", ie pounds (Carat) expressed in Carats (1 carat = 0.2 grams), color (Color), the cut (Cut) and Purity (Clarity) that a diamond is free of imperfections if, after an examination at 10 magnification by a qualified person in normal lighting conditions, was found devoid of "inclusions" or internal features. For more information you should visit the site www.diamondland.be. If you have a huge budget, the advice is to choose the color and purity cutting: most of inclusions, in fact, your eye will not be visible even with the precision instruments of jeweler!
4) Choose the hype. After choosing the stone, you can dedicate to the hype, however, follow the signs point 2). You can choose a simple solitaire, or you can add a filigree work, or a stone outline of the diamond, you will have to mount the stone in yellow gold, white, red, platinum or titanium.
5) Maximize your budget. If your intent is to give the future bride an engagement ring very great, but the two of your monthly salary of Section 1) are not enough, try to use the tricks. For example, ask a diamond with a size of the upper face greater: shine less, but is certainly larger. Or, try asking to see the greatness immediately carat smaller than the ones you want (0.75 instead of 1 or 1.75 instead of 2): the difference will be imperceptible to your eyes but substantial for your wallet! Or, choose a different stone from the central diamond, which can then make the engagement ring very large, however, flanked by two small bright. Even the metal of the mount will be important in order to save money: for example, use white gold instead of platinum.
6) Take a trip. In order not to break up the sea of jewels and diamonds that will present themselves in front of you not to go alone in jewelry, but let yourself be accompanied by someone who knows you well advised. Could you bring with you, for example, the mother of the future wife or sister or your best friend. If, however, fear that they can get away something and then spoil the surprise, ask to accompany your mother or your sister. In both cases, therefore, the choice of The engagement will be an excellent opportunity to settle family ties.
7) Pay attention to the certificates. E 'vital certificate of authenticity of The engagement that are going to buy, especially for the diamond. The certificate must certainly include the enhancement for the stone choice of the basic parameters for a diamond, the "4C" The certification of his greatness then, in terms of carats, its color (from D to Z) and its purity.
8) Choose a trusted jeweler. Ask for suggestions to friends and family and check if there is issued a certificate of guarantee especially on stones. Check in advance of the conditions for the right of withdrawal and the possibility of a change, if the engagement ring selected is not total satisfaction.
9) Plan purchases in advance. In fact not always come out with jewelry from the ring in hand: you must adapt it for example to finger the size of your beloved. In the case where you choose the stone separately and then mount it on the basis of your idea or plan, given time working very long. So I was planning to make your proposal of marriage in a very specific, get with the right advance.
10) Consider the idea of bringing with you the future bride. This certainly will cancel the surprise effect, but will certainly secure a shot! Many couples prefer to go together to choose the engagement ring, especially if you are a very demanding!
Tradition has it that misfortune ports at the same time buying the engagement ring and wedding faiths. It seems that bad luck ports also put finger to the faith before the wedding.
In the case of rupture of engagement, the label would like the mutual restitution of gifts and letters, then gold objects, photographs, but also any money lent by one of the two engaged to another for the furniture of the future home. Where is the man to break the relationship, the woman is allowed to keep the ring ... even though most cases you will not.
Engagements and promise of marriage: etiquette and traditions
Traditionally, the engagement announcement was made during a reception organized by the family of the bride for whom the calls were organized by the mother, while the ad itself was set out by his father.
The receipt of engagement was the opportunity to donate the ring by the boyfriend, who then became the official boyfriend. The engagement ring was returned by the girlfriend with a gift of equivalent value, such as a gold watch.
The company today has more time to informality and the slenderness that some traditions and rules dictated by etiquette, so necessary in the past, can be infringed without creating big problems.
Today, in fact, families are almost always aware of attendance, feelings and intentions of their children and therefore do not need formal and official speeches to announce the promise of marriage.
It 'still good that the boyfriend to go home of the future bride and ask her hand "to his father, is a nice gesture symbol that the beginning of a relationship based on esteem, confidence and involvement of families. This formality was a crucial time because the girls lived "relegated" in the house until the day of marriage under the control of the breadwinner father. Now that women have gained full independence and autonomy, it will be helpful for the girlfriend boyfriend eager to suggest some trick to "be nice" to the future father-in-law, making him understand that no one can usurp its role against the daughter.
And then ... the future will be a bride having to visit him at home! Most probably will not be the first time the girlfriend meet future parents-in-law, then there should be embarrassing silences. Once the betrothed felt obliged to appear in a "good girl", reassuring, a woman of the house which could have been taken care of her husband and children without any kind of problem: the girlfriend and then wore sober suits, took a calm attitude and so forth. Today, everyone tends to be spontaneous, just himself, becoming appreciated for their true talents, while always maintaining respect and education. Probably the betrothed will be "under observation" and will be a while 'is made under press "by the mother of him, but have enough common sense to understand that his mother is afraid of being set aside by his son and be able to calm in this sense: you can try for example farsela a friend asking her advice on what to like his son or if you fail in, has always maintained the rules of good education because a friction daughter-in-law - mother-in-law inevitably turns into a friction between spouses.
Once established family wedding in the womb, it is necessary that families are known, and even if you already know the etiquette of marriage wants to celebrate the event with an intimate lunch, which invite up to some other relative or friend close. Tradition has it that lunch is kept by the family of the bridegroom. On the morning of the lunch boyfriend betrothed to send a bouquet of white flowers. Eating the place of honor it is for engaged couples, they will face their parents to her those people to their right and left parents of the future bridegroom. On this occasion he give the ring of betrothal. At the end of lunch will be a toast to wish the new married couple. According to tradition, parents give him an object of gold for future daughter-in-law, which hopefully is a jewel of the family, with all the emotional and symbolic meanings to it tied.
If the parents of the boyfriend or girlfriend are divorced, the formula of presentation varies depending on the relationship between former spouses. If they have maintained a peaceful relationship and friendship, will be together for the occasion. Otherwise, you better invite them separately repeating the match. If the parents are divorced now being consolidated and other reports accepted in all respects by the children, lunch will include the current partner or companion. In general, as it has to do with the ball of emotions, the important thing is to always keep in every choice delicacy and tact, fully respecting the feelings and sensitivities of all persons involved.
Remember that in all these meetings, however, joy will be your guide, your trepidation, love that el'emozione you look in the loved one, and everything their parents and if they realize they will be happy, will be the Your small gestures by love and wish to share the future that escapes any hesitation on the part of families.
The receipt of engagement was the opportunity to donate the ring by the boyfriend, who then became the official boyfriend. The engagement ring was returned by the girlfriend with a gift of equivalent value, such as a gold watch.
The company today has more time to informality and the slenderness that some traditions and rules dictated by etiquette, so necessary in the past, can be infringed without creating big problems.
Today, in fact, families are almost always aware of attendance, feelings and intentions of their children and therefore do not need formal and official speeches to announce the promise of marriage.
It 'still good that the boyfriend to go home of the future bride and ask her hand "to his father, is a nice gesture symbol that the beginning of a relationship based on esteem, confidence and involvement of families. This formality was a crucial time because the girls lived "relegated" in the house until the day of marriage under the control of the breadwinner father. Now that women have gained full independence and autonomy, it will be helpful for the girlfriend boyfriend eager to suggest some trick to "be nice" to the future father-in-law, making him understand that no one can usurp its role against the daughter.
And then ... the future will be a bride having to visit him at home! Most probably will not be the first time the girlfriend meet future parents-in-law, then there should be embarrassing silences. Once the betrothed felt obliged to appear in a "good girl", reassuring, a woman of the house which could have been taken care of her husband and children without any kind of problem: the girlfriend and then wore sober suits, took a calm attitude and so forth. Today, everyone tends to be spontaneous, just himself, becoming appreciated for their true talents, while always maintaining respect and education. Probably the betrothed will be "under observation" and will be a while 'is made under press "by the mother of him, but have enough common sense to understand that his mother is afraid of being set aside by his son and be able to calm in this sense: you can try for example farsela a friend asking her advice on what to like his son or if you fail in, has always maintained the rules of good education because a friction daughter-in-law - mother-in-law inevitably turns into a friction between spouses.
Once established family wedding in the womb, it is necessary that families are known, and even if you already know the etiquette of marriage wants to celebrate the event with an intimate lunch, which invite up to some other relative or friend close. Tradition has it that lunch is kept by the family of the bridegroom. On the morning of the lunch boyfriend betrothed to send a bouquet of white flowers. Eating the place of honor it is for engaged couples, they will face their parents to her those people to their right and left parents of the future bridegroom. On this occasion he give the ring of betrothal. At the end of lunch will be a toast to wish the new married couple. According to tradition, parents give him an object of gold for future daughter-in-law, which hopefully is a jewel of the family, with all the emotional and symbolic meanings to it tied.
If the parents of the boyfriend or girlfriend are divorced, the formula of presentation varies depending on the relationship between former spouses. If they have maintained a peaceful relationship and friendship, will be together for the occasion. Otherwise, you better invite them separately repeating the match. If the parents are divorced now being consolidated and other reports accepted in all respects by the children, lunch will include the current partner or companion. In general, as it has to do with the ball of emotions, the important thing is to always keep in every choice delicacy and tact, fully respecting the feelings and sensitivities of all persons involved.
Remember that in all these meetings, however, joy will be your guide, your trepidation, love that el'emozione you look in the loved one, and everything their parents and if they realize they will be happy, will be the Your small gestures by love and wish to share the future that escapes any hesitation on the part of families.
Practical Guide to Wedding
Set up the refreshments for the ceremony is probably the most complex of marriage. First, service catering choose whether to organize a standing buffet or prepare a meal and then we need to assess whether or not to rely to a catering service or do it all yourself. This depends solely on your needs and your financial help is available. It 'clear that if you rely to a catering service, which is dealing with every detail, you do not have to do anything and I enjoy every moment of the day, but it is also obvious that all this could have cost a pretty sustained .
Once chosen the catering service, will clarify every detail before signing the contract and make a deposit.
Clearly, each service has a cost, so do not give anything for granted and you specify in the contract, anything you want, look fussy, but more so, click the cateringpiuttosto who have bad surprises at the end. First, we must clarify the basic services that the catering service, typically offers such services and, instead, can be added and at what price. To begin with, companies catering can provide two or three varieties of menus, each with a different price, so you specify the flow and any drinks included in every menu, and if you want to make changes, specificatele with accurate pricing. After establishing the type of refreshments, will agree to ask if the tables, chairs and everything needed for indoor are included in the price or be hired separately.
In this latter case, ask to see them, and possibly to choose among various options that offer you, but always holding an eye on the price, if, then, the accessories are not to your liking, you can decide to cateringanche hiring elsewhere.
To get an idea of costs, apply, the Internet, a free estimate for.
The same goes for placemarks, the floral decorations on tables and in the hall. E 'necessary to establish the presence in the room, a responsible and waiters with related tasks, for example, if there is a buffet, the waiters prepare food on the plate or invitees must provide for themselves? Who will take care of final cleaning?
As for the wedding cake, however, the restaurant always provides its preparation, but not necessarily to do the catering service. Therefore, also called this aspect in all its details, asking to see photographs of other ceremonies held earlier.
Finally, it remains to be agreed the economic modes of payment, the advance of which you do leave a receipt and possibly a penalty in case of cancellation (you never know!).
After having defined the various aspects of the organization, check that all the agreements have been put down on paper and signed only after checking that everything is in place.
Remember that most of catering services will also bring the taste of a few months earlier, offering the latest culinary. In these cases, if you make a substitution, you can insert in the contract, indicating that this is a replacement or an addition.
Once chosen the catering service, will clarify every detail before signing the contract and make a deposit.
Clearly, each service has a cost, so do not give anything for granted and you specify in the contract, anything you want, look fussy, but more so, click the cateringpiuttosto who have bad surprises at the end. First, we must clarify the basic services that the catering service, typically offers such services and, instead, can be added and at what price. To begin with, companies catering can provide two or three varieties of menus, each with a different price, so you specify the flow and any drinks included in every menu, and if you want to make changes, specificatele with accurate pricing. After establishing the type of refreshments, will agree to ask if the tables, chairs and everything needed for indoor are included in the price or be hired separately.
In this latter case, ask to see them, and possibly to choose among various options that offer you, but always holding an eye on the price, if, then, the accessories are not to your liking, you can decide to cateringanche hiring elsewhere.
To get an idea of costs, apply, the Internet, a free estimate for.
The same goes for placemarks, the floral decorations on tables and in the hall. E 'necessary to establish the presence in the room, a responsible and waiters with related tasks, for example, if there is a buffet, the waiters prepare food on the plate or invitees must provide for themselves? Who will take care of final cleaning?
As for the wedding cake, however, the restaurant always provides its preparation, but not necessarily to do the catering service. Therefore, also called this aspect in all its details, asking to see photographs of other ceremonies held earlier.
Finally, it remains to be agreed the economic modes of payment, the advance of which you do leave a receipt and possibly a penalty in case of cancellation (you never know!).
After having defined the various aspects of the organization, check that all the agreements have been put down on paper and signed only after checking that everything is in place.
Remember that most of catering services will also bring the taste of a few months earlier, offering the latest culinary. In these cases, if you make a substitution, you can insert in the contract, indicating that this is a replacement or an addition.
Wedding menu and wedding cake
At this point, whether or not you turn to a catering service and independent of choice for the wedding, we propose a scheme based menus, you may be especially useful in the event that you decide to organize themselves Having lunch on matrimonialevostro marriage. For starters, you can serve an aperitif. Know that the custom of the bride and groom wait to open the buffet has been superseded by a po 'time, especially since, including photographs, filming and all convenevoli, the guests are not happy to wait hours. So, do quietly serve aperitifs before the wedding, which will open the refreshments at the time of appetizers. Another rule to remember is to serve more varieties of the same scope to give guests the opportunity to choose what to eat, especially in the event that a scope not like it. This also reduces the risk of criticism, because everyone will have had the thing you like.
Returning to the menu, you can serve two or more cocktail fruit, preferably soft drinks or alcohol just because they are refreshing and not weight. For example:
-Mimosa:
Pour into a jug of orange juice and dilute it with the sparkling ice.
Serve immediately or store in cool.
-Bellini:
Peel peaches and centrifuge or pass them in a colander a funnel. Pour the juice in a jug and dilute it with the sparkling ice.
Serve immediately or store in cool.
As an alternative to the cocktail, are happy with the juice of exotic fruits and citrus fruit.
The cocktail may be served in glasses or cups low and wide, all decorated with the appropriate accessories or, more simply, with a slice of fruit supported on the edge of the glass.
The cocktail may be accompanied by tasty appetizers as starters:
* Tocchetti parmesan and / or other types of cheese
* Canapés
* Pitted olives
* Pancakes small enterprises: mozzarella cheese panate; bundles stuffed with cheese and tomatoes;
* Panzarotti mignon
* Courgettes and grilled eggplant, seasoned with salt, olive oil, balsamic vinegar and mint
Each flow can be served in an oval pan, decorated with leaves of vegetables or with kitchen paper to colored plain, alternatively there are dishes hovers straw baskets, wide and low.
After cocktails and hors d'oeuvres, we await the arrival of the bride and groom are to continue. Open the banquet, you can serve two samples of pasta dishes, a meat, for example:
Pennette Egyptian:
amount to 10 people: 1 Kg. peeled tomatoes; 1Kg. sausage, 1 Kg. pennette of striped;
Making soffriggere garlic, add the crumbled sausage and peeled, let cook for 15 minutes.
After add spinach and boiled already cut and leave mix all the cream and add salt and pasta when al dente. Serve in dishes by adding flakes of parmesan cheese and a sprinkling of paprika.
and the other first dish of fish, for example:
Linguine of Positano: quantity for 10 people: 1 kg of Linguine, 400 gr. shrimp, 600 gr. of mussels, 600 gr. clams, 400 gr. of squid, tomato rose, a glass of white wine, a clove of minced garlic, salt and pepper.
Heat in a pan with garlic and parsley in 4 tablespoons of oil. Combine squid, shrimp, mussels open, the clams and wine. Add tomato rose, cook a moderate flame for 15 minutes. Meanwhile cook the pasta al dente, drain and season with the prepared sauce, mix all doing the same pan of sauce.
For main courses you can repeat the double-tasting meat and fish, or serve a single scale, perhaps giving the guests a choice.
Incartocciati polyps:
amount to 10 people: 1,500 gr. polyps, garlic, oil, 800 gr. of peeled, parsley, salt and pepper.
Heat in a pan with garlic and parsley and tomato and, after cleaning the polyps, add them to the pan with the pepper. Do cook on a low flame until the polyps are tender and sauce thickened. To serve, adagiare a flat floor in a sheet of aluminum paper, put at the center of a sheet with octopus sauce and close the foil to form a bag.
Returning to the menu, you can serve two or more cocktail fruit, preferably soft drinks or alcohol just because they are refreshing and not weight. For example:
-Mimosa:
Pour into a jug of orange juice and dilute it with the sparkling ice.
Serve immediately or store in cool.
-Bellini:
Peel peaches and centrifuge or pass them in a colander a funnel. Pour the juice in a jug and dilute it with the sparkling ice.
Serve immediately or store in cool.
As an alternative to the cocktail, are happy with the juice of exotic fruits and citrus fruit.
The cocktail may be served in glasses or cups low and wide, all decorated with the appropriate accessories or, more simply, with a slice of fruit supported on the edge of the glass.
The cocktail may be accompanied by tasty appetizers as starters:
* Tocchetti parmesan and / or other types of cheese
* Canapés
* Pitted olives
* Pancakes small enterprises: mozzarella cheese panate; bundles stuffed with cheese and tomatoes;
* Panzarotti mignon
* Courgettes and grilled eggplant, seasoned with salt, olive oil, balsamic vinegar and mint
Each flow can be served in an oval pan, decorated with leaves of vegetables or with kitchen paper to colored plain, alternatively there are dishes hovers straw baskets, wide and low.
After cocktails and hors d'oeuvres, we await the arrival of the bride and groom are to continue. Open the banquet, you can serve two samples of pasta dishes, a meat, for example:
Pennette Egyptian:
amount to 10 people: 1 Kg. peeled tomatoes; 1Kg. sausage, 1 Kg. pennette of striped;
Making soffriggere garlic, add the crumbled sausage and peeled, let cook for 15 minutes.
After add spinach and boiled already cut and leave mix all the cream and add salt and pasta when al dente. Serve in dishes by adding flakes of parmesan cheese and a sprinkling of paprika.
and the other first dish of fish, for example:
Linguine of Positano: quantity for 10 people: 1 kg of Linguine, 400 gr. shrimp, 600 gr. of mussels, 600 gr. clams, 400 gr. of squid, tomato rose, a glass of white wine, a clove of minced garlic, salt and pepper.
Heat in a pan with garlic and parsley in 4 tablespoons of oil. Combine squid, shrimp, mussels open, the clams and wine. Add tomato rose, cook a moderate flame for 15 minutes. Meanwhile cook the pasta al dente, drain and season with the prepared sauce, mix all doing the same pan of sauce.
For main courses you can repeat the double-tasting meat and fish, or serve a single scale, perhaps giving the guests a choice.
Incartocciati polyps:
amount to 10 people: 1,500 gr. polyps, garlic, oil, 800 gr. of peeled, parsley, salt and pepper.
Heat in a pan with garlic and parsley and tomato and, after cleaning the polyps, add them to the pan with the pepper. Do cook on a low flame until the polyps are tender and sauce thickened. To serve, adagiare a flat floor in a sheet of aluminum paper, put at the center of a sheet with octopus sauce and close the foil to form a bag.
How to organize tables of marriage
In reality, setting the tables of a marriage is not really that complicated. Just follow some simple rules and have some 'fancy.
It starts with the tablecloth, or rather, the choice of color of the tablecloth, which will also be the main color that characterize your wedding accompanying the combinations with other accessories. Help with the colors of the refreshment room, perhaps the style of local or colors of its walls you can make some suggestions. You can choose the classic colors purple and ivory, for a wedding very elegant and refined, or more modern colors such as pastel green, salmon pink or blue night, appearing equally elegnati but undoubtedly more lively and fashionable. This will depend on your taste and style you choose for your wedding, the important thing is not taken very heated tones or colors that match a particular event, for example, if you choose the red or the blue fire, it will seem to be in your party's degree or baptism of a child.
After choosing the color on to the floral composition that is on every table that marriage be respected. After making it clear if the restaurant owner to provide or arrange for yourself, you should choose the flower and its color. Even here may depend on the color of the tablecloths, the style of marriage and that of married couples. For the variety of colors that offer there are daisies from the field, the gerbera, orchids, tulips and roses, but also recommended the mimosa, camellias, the peonies, gladioli and the flowers of peach. The advice is to choose flowers in season, so why not have particular problems in raising the quantity you need and above all are cheaper.
A viable alternative to the compositions of flower may be, however, small compositions of cactuses, preferably in bloom because the flower of the plant fat is very special. Otherwise, you can decorate the cactuses with special applications such as small glitter (can be found in mercerie) or flowers, butterflies and lady-in plastic (you can find in stores that sell decorations for cakes or for parties).
After choosing the color on to the floral composition that is on every table that marriage be respected. After making it clear if the restaurant owner to provide or arrange for yourself, you should choose the flower and its color. Even here may depend on the color of the tablecloths, the style of marriage and that of married couples. For the variety of colors that offer there are daisies from the field, the gerbera, orchids, tulips and roses, but also recommended the mimosa, camellias, the peonies, gladioli and the flowers of peach. The advice is to choose flowers in season, so why not have particular problems in raising the quantity you need and above all are cheaper.
A viable alternative to the compositions of flower may be, however, small compositions of cactuses, preferably in bloom because the flower of the plant fat is very special. Otherwise, you can decorate the cactuses with special applications such as small glitter (can be found in mercerie) or flowers, butterflies and lady-in plastic (you can find in stores that sell decorations for cakes or for parties).
It starts with the tablecloth, or rather, the choice of color of the tablecloth, which will also be the main color that characterize your wedding accompanying the combinations with other accessories. Help with the colors of the refreshment room, perhaps the style of local or colors of its walls you can make some suggestions. You can choose the classic colors purple and ivory, for a wedding very elegant and refined, or more modern colors such as pastel green, salmon pink or blue night, appearing equally elegnati but undoubtedly more lively and fashionable. This will depend on your taste and style you choose for your wedding, the important thing is not taken very heated tones or colors that match a particular event, for example, if you choose the red or the blue fire, it will seem to be in your party's degree or baptism of a child.
After choosing the color on to the floral composition that is on every table that marriage be respected. After making it clear if the restaurant owner to provide or arrange for yourself, you should choose the flower and its color. Even here may depend on the color of the tablecloths, the style of marriage and that of married couples. For the variety of colors that offer there are daisies from the field, the gerbera, orchids, tulips and roses, but also recommended the mimosa, camellias, the peonies, gladioli and the flowers of peach. The advice is to choose flowers in season, so why not have particular problems in raising the quantity you need and above all are cheaper.
A viable alternative to the compositions of flower may be, however, small compositions of cactuses, preferably in bloom because the flower of the plant fat is very special. Otherwise, you can decorate the cactuses with special applications such as small glitter (can be found in mercerie) or flowers, butterflies and lady-in plastic (you can find in stores that sell decorations for cakes or for parties).
After choosing the color on to the floral composition that is on every table that marriage be respected. After making it clear if the restaurant owner to provide or arrange for yourself, you should choose the flower and its color. Even here may depend on the color of the tablecloths, the style of marriage and that of married couples. For the variety of colors that offer there are daisies from the field, the gerbera, orchids, tulips and roses, but also recommended the mimosa, camellias, the peonies, gladioli and the flowers of peach. The advice is to choose flowers in season, so why not have particular problems in raising the quantity you need and above all are cheaper.
A viable alternative to the compositions of flower may be, however, small compositions of cactuses, preferably in bloom because the flower of the plant fat is very special. Otherwise, you can decorate the cactuses with special applications such as small glitter (can be found in mercerie) or flowers, butterflies and lady-in plastic (you can find in stores that sell decorations for cakes or for parties).
MARRIAGE: HOW TO ORGANIZE THE TABLES OF THE GUESTS
If for your wedding you have opted for the lunch or the supper sat, it would be better that you are you to fix the places to the tables, to avoid that the guests goes wandering about looking for a nice or less unpleasant face of the others. To make the correct combinings is not a cinch, because it will need to consider the friendships or the enmities of his/her/their relatives among them. In every case, we will try to facilitate you the assignment, with small suggestions. You first of all try to know exactly the number of the guests. This will also serve you to give the confirmation to the refreshing one of the precise number of the covered ones.
Usually the restaurants prefiscono to prepare the room for the marriage with round tables from six or from eight places, where the guests will sit him in base to the disposition that you will give him for you. The basic rule to prepare the tables for the reception is that of “to separate” the guests of the family of his/her/their bride from those of the family of the bridegroom. This could serve to avoid the embarrassing silences created by those people that sit to the same table not knowing himself/herself/itself. After this first division, you can proceed to a further division, systematizing, for instance, in a same table, his/her brothers or the sisters of dad, with the respective families and, equally, in another table, his/her brothers and the sisters of mother, with the families to the succession. Obviously you will have to keep in mind the general number of the components of every family.
For a more consistent setup you will have to also consider the personal situations that only the bridegrooms and his/her own parents know well; for this motive it will be the case to make together the assignment of the places, also looking out upon more possible solutions, for then to reflect and to choose that more suitable.
As it regards the friends, you/they should not be us particular problems, enough not to separate the couples of fiancés. If then you want to do a favor to a friend and to a friend single, you can make to happen them to the same table…… he can never know. In last, the parents of the bridegrooms will sit in a table apart, even everything whole, while the bridegrooms can sit alone, if their table is round, or together with the witnesses, if the table is greater and rectangular.
The scheme that you could adopt for putting the tables in the room foresees after all the table of the bridegrooms to the room, in the center, so that is perfectly seen as soon as he enters from the door, while all the other tables must be set along the side walls of the room so that not to stop the view of the table of the bridegrooms. The order of preference wants next to the table of the bridegrooms the table of the most narrow relatives and then as all the others. Besides, the bridegrooms can sit alone in the table or together with the respective parents, or together with the witnesses, alternating a man and a woman. His/her bride goes to the left of the bridegroom.
To show your dispositions to the guests, can use a notice-board for the places, to put before the entrance of the room. On this notice-board you will reproduce the scheme of the present tables in the place of the reception, inserting to every table the name of the guest. To facilitate the things, can give an appellative to every table, for instance using names of flowers of constellations or of precious stones. The select appellative will come, then brought on a nameplate positioned on the same table,; every guest won't have to do anything else other than to remember himself/herself/themselves the name of the table to which is sat, being free to choose the really place. In alternative, you can use some segnapostos with the name of the guest.
If the structure that you have chosen for the marriage is found in a particular tourist area as the coastal amalfitana or the coast ligure, an idea could be that to retrieve, even in internet, images of the various places and instead of attributing only the name of a place to every table, you can directly reproduce the photographic image and to position her/it on the table.
Usually the restaurants prefiscono to prepare the room for the marriage with round tables from six or from eight places, where the guests will sit him in base to the disposition that you will give him for you. The basic rule to prepare the tables for the reception is that of “to separate” the guests of the family of his/her/their bride from those of the family of the bridegroom. This could serve to avoid the embarrassing silences created by those people that sit to the same table not knowing himself/herself/itself. After this first division, you can proceed to a further division, systematizing, for instance, in a same table, his/her brothers or the sisters of dad, with the respective families and, equally, in another table, his/her brothers and the sisters of mother, with the families to the succession. Obviously you will have to keep in mind the general number of the components of every family.
For a more consistent setup you will have to also consider the personal situations that only the bridegrooms and his/her own parents know well; for this motive it will be the case to make together the assignment of the places, also looking out upon more possible solutions, for then to reflect and to choose that more suitable.
As it regards the friends, you/they should not be us particular problems, enough not to separate the couples of fiancés. If then you want to do a favor to a friend and to a friend single, you can make to happen them to the same table…… he can never know. In last, the parents of the bridegrooms will sit in a table apart, even everything whole, while the bridegrooms can sit alone, if their table is round, or together with the witnesses, if the table is greater and rectangular.
The scheme that you could adopt for putting the tables in the room foresees after all the table of the bridegrooms to the room, in the center, so that is perfectly seen as soon as he enters from the door, while all the other tables must be set along the side walls of the room so that not to stop the view of the table of the bridegrooms. The order of preference wants next to the table of the bridegrooms the table of the most narrow relatives and then as all the others. Besides, the bridegrooms can sit alone in the table or together with the respective parents, or together with the witnesses, alternating a man and a woman. His/her bride goes to the left of the bridegroom.
To show your dispositions to the guests, can use a notice-board for the places, to put before the entrance of the room. On this notice-board you will reproduce the scheme of the present tables in the place of the reception, inserting to every table the name of the guest. To facilitate the things, can give an appellative to every table, for instance using names of flowers of constellations or of precious stones. The select appellative will come, then brought on a nameplate positioned on the same table,; every guest won't have to do anything else other than to remember himself/herself/themselves the name of the table to which is sat, being free to choose the really place. In alternative, you can use some segnapostos with the name of the guest.
If the structure that you have chosen for the marriage is found in a particular tourist area as the coastal amalfitana or the coast ligure, an idea could be that to retrieve, even in internet, images of the various places and instead of attributing only the name of a place to every table, you can directly reproduce the photographic image and to position her/it on the table.
Wedding dress: to choose the correct model
Wedding dress is a fundamental part of the marriage, but its choice can put even in crisis.
Many models of wedding dress exist, so that to satisfy all the tastes, but to avoid to choose at all for his/her own body one of it proper, will be necessary to clarify him the ideas on the style and on the colors proposed by the fashion, but above all on the models and on the colors that you like and that they are better you.
In fact, not always the model of wedding dress that more you like it is what adapts better him to your forms or to the color of your complexion.
You will have to consider many aspects of your physicist, that you will have to jump or to camouflage: for the one who a prosperous breast has a suit it is not suitable composed by a bodice to balconcino, that would increase the volume of it, making to appear you inadequate for the marriage in the church. Otherwise, who has a breast a little pronounced, it will be able "to increase him/it", with a bra push-up and a bodice that it follows the form of it, otherwise you risks to have, in the bodice, of the "empty parts." You to the trailing for the tall bride, to avoid, instead, for the bride of small stature, to which you/he/she could put on better a tubular suit, under which, to fling suit get married it shows up her/it, tall heels must be worn in such way that you/they are not noticed.
A skirt that bandages hold on the life is dissuaded both for his/her bride with some kilo of too much, both for his/her/their bride thin eccesivamente. For the one that has some wide sides a suit you/he/she is recommended "style empire", that is a wedding dress that has the cut instead under the breast that in life, in this way, in fact, the figure is more and the sides are hidden. In every case, the excesses, as you break exaggerated and excessive necklines, leave them to you to the vip. As it regards the fabric, if you get married in the warm months, the suggestion is to prefer a wedding dress in silk, because it is a very refined cloth but also light, that won't give not only you problems in the movements, but it will help you to bear better the warm one some day.
The tailors of the studios can recommend well you, because they have the trained eye and experienced and you/they can adapt the wedding dress to every your demand, therefore you are not afraid to ask suggestions and you don't like to clearly say thing in a wedding dress. In this way you will help them to understand better your tastes and your necessities.
As it regards the colors, then, the white is that traditional, but by now a lot of tonalities exist of it, from the white ice to the white ivory. Further colorations proposed by the stylists for the wedding dresses go from the color gold, to the champagne, to the light brown one and even to the blue electric and to the red. The choice depends on you and also from the ambientazione that you have chosen for the celebration of the ceremony.
You begin the searches at least nine months before and when you have found the wedding dress that does for you, you fix at least three appointments for the tests, of which, one, at least a few days before the wedding and to be calm, checks everything really the day before.
Only after having chosen the wedding dress you can choose without problems all the accessories, so that to make the correct combinings. The intimate (a push-up, a regggiseno to balconcino or, still a corset) it depends, in fact, from the select model. If the stockings are necessary, you prefer the autoreggentis, they are very more practices and surely sexier than those with the bodice. When you will also have bought the shoes, it will be better to make another test of the suit, so that the edge is perfectly suited for the length of that heel.
You remember that I am often really the shops of the wedding dresses to furnish everything the necessary of you, paying... he intends, even if for the jewels, some studios include them in the price, others lend them to you, with the obligation to return them after the ceremony.
If instead of purchasing him/it, you have decided to make to manufacture your wedding dress daabito he/she marries a tailor, you remember that you cannot go around for the shops and scopiazzare the suits as nothing happened. Therefore, it will be better to bring itself the tailor and to make to pass her/it for one aunt of yours, so that herself sees the suit and can remember him/it. Then, as soon as you have the possibility, utilizzite the camera of the jail cell, also to photograph a particular solo of the suit that has struck you.
When the suit will be delivered, it will be better to open him/it and to hang him/it away from eyes and indiscreet hands. Make to recommend you from the tailor on as to precisely do. After having verified that everything is to place, you settle the account.
Practical suggestions:
- Once taken the measures of the wedding dress, you will have to hold under control your weight, that won't owe neither to increase neither to decrease.
- No bag with you, but considering that he cannot do just to of it less, submit her/it to a friend or to his/her/their mother.
- You remember that, according to the tradition, to bring fortune, under the wedding dress an old thing is worn (for instance the clasps for the hair), a new (the intimate), one lent (the old bracelet of his/her/their mother), one given as a present (the garter or a jewel) and a blue (it will be enough to sharpen a ribbon or a near blue tassel the garter or the bra).
Many models of wedding dress exist, so that to satisfy all the tastes, but to avoid to choose at all for his/her own body one of it proper, will be necessary to clarify him the ideas on the style and on the colors proposed by the fashion, but above all on the models and on the colors that you like and that they are better you.
In fact, not always the model of wedding dress that more you like it is what adapts better him to your forms or to the color of your complexion.
You will have to consider many aspects of your physicist, that you will have to jump or to camouflage: for the one who a prosperous breast has a suit it is not suitable composed by a bodice to balconcino, that would increase the volume of it, making to appear you inadequate for the marriage in the church. Otherwise, who has a breast a little pronounced, it will be able "to increase him/it", with a bra push-up and a bodice that it follows the form of it, otherwise you risks to have, in the bodice, of the "empty parts." You to the trailing for the tall bride, to avoid, instead, for the bride of small stature, to which you/he/she could put on better a tubular suit, under which, to fling suit get married it shows up her/it, tall heels must be worn in such way that you/they are not noticed.
A skirt that bandages hold on the life is dissuaded both for his/her bride with some kilo of too much, both for his/her/their bride thin eccesivamente. For the one that has some wide sides a suit you/he/she is recommended "style empire", that is a wedding dress that has the cut instead under the breast that in life, in this way, in fact, the figure is more and the sides are hidden. In every case, the excesses, as you break exaggerated and excessive necklines, leave them to you to the vip. As it regards the fabric, if you get married in the warm months, the suggestion is to prefer a wedding dress in silk, because it is a very refined cloth but also light, that won't give not only you problems in the movements, but it will help you to bear better the warm one some day.
The tailors of the studios can recommend well you, because they have the trained eye and experienced and you/they can adapt the wedding dress to every your demand, therefore you are not afraid to ask suggestions and you don't like to clearly say thing in a wedding dress. In this way you will help them to understand better your tastes and your necessities.
As it regards the colors, then, the white is that traditional, but by now a lot of tonalities exist of it, from the white ice to the white ivory. Further colorations proposed by the stylists for the wedding dresses go from the color gold, to the champagne, to the light brown one and even to the blue electric and to the red. The choice depends on you and also from the ambientazione that you have chosen for the celebration of the ceremony.
You begin the searches at least nine months before and when you have found the wedding dress that does for you, you fix at least three appointments for the tests, of which, one, at least a few days before the wedding and to be calm, checks everything really the day before.
Only after having chosen the wedding dress you can choose without problems all the accessories, so that to make the correct combinings. The intimate (a push-up, a regggiseno to balconcino or, still a corset) it depends, in fact, from the select model. If the stockings are necessary, you prefer the autoreggentis, they are very more practices and surely sexier than those with the bodice. When you will also have bought the shoes, it will be better to make another test of the suit, so that the edge is perfectly suited for the length of that heel.
You remember that I am often really the shops of the wedding dresses to furnish everything the necessary of you, paying... he intends, even if for the jewels, some studios include them in the price, others lend them to you, with the obligation to return them after the ceremony.
If instead of purchasing him/it, you have decided to make to manufacture your wedding dress daabito he/she marries a tailor, you remember that you cannot go around for the shops and scopiazzare the suits as nothing happened. Therefore, it will be better to bring itself the tailor and to make to pass her/it for one aunt of yours, so that herself sees the suit and can remember him/it. Then, as soon as you have the possibility, utilizzite the camera of the jail cell, also to photograph a particular solo of the suit that has struck you.
When the suit will be delivered, it will be better to open him/it and to hang him/it away from eyes and indiscreet hands. Make to recommend you from the tailor on as to precisely do. After having verified that everything is to place, you settle the account.
Practical suggestions:
- Once taken the measures of the wedding dress, you will have to hold under control your weight, that won't owe neither to increase neither to decrease.
- No bag with you, but considering that he cannot do just to of it less, submit her/it to a friend or to his/her/their mother.
- You remember that, according to the tradition, to bring fortune, under the wedding dress an old thing is worn (for instance the clasps for the hair), a new (the intimate), one lent (the old bracelet of his/her/their mother), one given as a present (the garter or a jewel) and a blue (it will be enough to sharpen a ribbon or a near blue tassel the garter or the bra).
How to organize a marriage
To organize a beautiful marriage is not certain what simple. There are so many details to which to think: the church, the floral decorations, the bombonieres, the trip of wedding.... in short a rather great appointment. Following you will find a complete guide that will help you in the preparations from one year up to the day of the event before.
1 YEAR BEFORE
THE CHURCH
The first footstep to be done is to choose the church whether to get married you (clearly for a religious marriage). Every church has its procedure to follow and its calendar marriages. If not you desire to get married you in your parish you have to book you one year before. Once naturally booked the church the date has officially fixed!!!
THE HOUSE
If you have intention to purchase the house in which to go to live, at least one year before you have to conclude the contract of purchase, so you will have the time to do some inside job and to purchase the suitable furniture that at times have long times of delivery.
THE GUESTS' LIST
You word a first list of the guests. It will serve you to give an indicative number to the restaurant.
THE RESTAURANT
After having compiled an approximate list of the guests you can choose the restaurant with the proper room for your demands. If you are able you try to find not a restaurant very away from the church. Not the guests always feel like making so many kilometers.
10 months Before
THE PHOTOGRAPHER
The choice of the photographer cannot be improvised. You contact with advance a professional, viewing his/her precedents jobs. Considered that every photographer can realize a service a day and if you/he/she is already hocked in another marriage you/he/she cannot follow you. Generally the services are of 80/100 photos of various format and the films hard around mezz'ora. You try even to get from your photographer the promise that can be in your album some photos besides the canonical layings of the salient moments particular snatched of hidden: an expressive close-up of his/her/their bride, the weeping of the mother of the bridegroom, the cake on the whole face of your smaller little sister etc... an album with these moments will be really complete. You ask whose the ownership of the photos is. Many photographers don't surrender the rights on the photos that do. This means that the ownership of the photos (copyright) he/she remains to them. In practice, they holds back the negative ones and so you will be forced to return from them for possible reprints. It is illegal to reproduce images of which the copyright is not possessed.
COURSE OF PREPARATION Á. THE MARRIAGE
Who wants to get married in the church it has to obligatorily follow the course of preparation to the marriage. You follows in her parish or in his parish or in another parish with the void one it hinders some priest. The course lasts around 2 months, 1 time to week (but it varies from parish parish). The frequency is obligatory. I recommend you to follow him/it 10 months before (in line with the calendars of the parish) because from here all the turns they depart for then the documents.
6 MONTHS BEFORE
THE DOCUMENTS
Concluded the course of preparation to the marriage the priest it will release you a form (to the priest you will already have delivered the certificates of baptism and confirmation of both.). With such form he takes in common appointment for the oath. To remember himself/herself/themselves that from the oath it needs to marry himself/herself/themselves within 6 months and that the commune posts your publications for about 2 weeks (it has to remain published for 2 Sundays). After the publication it needs to bring the sheet of the publications in his parish if the course of preparation to the marriage has been taken near her parish (or vice versa). Here you/they must have exposed for 15 days. After 15 days the publications of the commune and the parish are brought in the parish where the course is followed. Here you/he/she will be filled out a form that must have brought in vicariato. From the vicariato it brings him the all in the parish where he/she gets married us.
RENTAL OF THE AUTO
The auto of his/her/their bride can be also the good auto of dad or a particularly near friend but the custom he/she would like a beautiful auto of epoch to rental with so much of driver in livery or even a carriage with horses and everything. In effects everything depends on the style that he/she is wanted to give to his/her own marriage. The main point is that the good sense and the good taste prevail. To the guide you/he/she can sit a brother of his/her/their bride or a friend of the couple or a driver professional if the auto has been taken to rental. The decoration discreet dev'essere: a floral composition to be systematized on the back lunotto and nothing more. On board of the auto they will sit, besides the driver, his/her bride accompanied by his/her/their father. From the church to the place of reception, his/her mole-bridegroom can take the guide of the auto, but you/he/she is not obligatory.
THE WEDDING GOWN
The wedding gown is a choice main point, it is the image of the marriage. The shops will make you measure their models and then your suit you/he/she will be manufactured around 2 months before the great day. An analysis of his/her own person will help to individualize the points to valorize and also the defects to be hidden. To try to camouflage the wide sides a suit can slightly be used flared and cut under the breast; the thinnest can dress fluid suits instead, from the slipped line; very wide and fluffy skirts are forbidden to the very low brides instead. In the town hall it is preferable the short suit, perfect the suit, also pant, in the tones of the white, of the cream, of the ivory, of the écru or crayon; who will want him/it, it will be able nevertheless to dress the long suit. The definitive choice has to happen at least three months before the marriage, for possible retouches to the suit and for the choice of the accessories: stockings, shoes, lingerie, gloves, veil, bouquet, possible small earrings. It is here also well to start to look for him/it for time and to let from his/her/their mother to be accompanied, from his/her/their sister or from the friend of the heart, but remembered you that the bridegroom doesn't have to see the wedding dress before the ceremony.
5 MONTHS BEFORE
THE GUESTS' LIST
To this point it needs to word a true list of the guests. To skim or to detail the first sort when it missed one year. This total number will serve from now on you for bomboniere, shares and the whole rest.
I RENT HOUSE
If you have not bought a house this it is the moment to look for the house in lease. You scatter around the voice between your entourage of friends and relatives and you buy specialized newspapers.
BOMBONIERE E SHARES
Here is the moment to choose bomboniere and shares. The bombonieres, distinguish generally him in,: great bomboniere for the guests to the lunch (one to family); averages for people of respect but that you won't invite to lunch and I am sacchettini with a small oggettino; the sacchettinis that you will give not guests to the various people. The pouch of the white sugared almonds and in odd number (3 or 5), dev'essere accompanied by a bigliettino with the names of the bridegrooms, for first that of her. If you desire they are also there the segnapostos that you will put to table. Particular bombonieres to the witnesses and his/her parents are normally delivered. The shares must be delivered or expeditious one to family. With the invitation for the one who you want to invite to the marriage, only the share with the address of the church to whom will come only in the church or to whom want to make to know that you get married you. The times of delivery of the bombonieres and shares it varies from shop to shop.
3 MONTHS BEFORE
FLORAL DECORATIONS AND BOUQUET
The flowers damage an important contribution to the atmosphere of the marriage. Turn to your florist of trust or you look for a florist that knows how to satisfy your demands. You choose the decoration for the church (if you know the couple that he/she gets married him in the same church in the same day you can divide the expenses); the decoration of the front door of his/her/their bride and the bouquet. Everything has to be in tuning, the same flowers are possibly chosen or at least the same colors. The bouquet is ago the last homage that the fiancé to the future bride; it is him to choose him/it and to deliver him/it to house of his/her/their bride, to a narrow relative. In this last case his/her bride, received hardly not the bouquet, you/he/she unthreads a flower of it (white) that you/he/she inserts to the buttonhole of the jacket of the bridegroom. A round and compact bouquet, to small flowers, well it will suit him for a short suit; for the long one, an open and voluminous bouquet or an only flower tightened by ribbons; for one with trailing, a bouquet ricadente; for the suit, a bunch to bundle. Amplissima the choice of the flowers, from the roses to the tulips, up to the small flowers of the fruit trees, to the sunflowers, to the flowers of field. Two the traditions respect to the final fate of the bouquet: the first one wants that at the end of the reception his/her bride launches him/it behind if at random among all the unmarried girls (who will pick him/it up you/he/she should be gotten married within the year); the second wants the bouquet to be brought by the bridegrooms to an altar (possibly of a madonna) immediately after the ceremony in the church and before the bridegrooms reach the saloon with the guests. Dried or turned into pot-pourri it will be a beautiful memory of that day.
THE BRIDEGROOM SUIT
Here is the moment also for him to choose the suit that will bring that day. For a formal ceremony, between the morning and the 18, with his/her bride in white and long suit, the bridegroom should wear the tight, and so his/her fathers, the witnesses and his/her brothers. The tight is composed from a jacket in fresh wool, grey anthracite or black to long tails, that it marks the life and band the sides, always laced. The pantalonis are to lines grigie and black; the gilet, in double breast with revers, it is in light cloth, grey clear (never imagination). The shirt will have double cuffs, I closed from twin, rigid neck, shot starched and raised again angles. The tie will be grey to plastron, stopped by a pin with pearl. In alternative, there is the half tight, of same cut, but without tails. In this case they are not anticipated neither gloves in grey chamois, neither the hat to cylinder, essential in the classical tight.
The stockings will be black or anthracite, in cotton or silk and to the knee, with shoes laced in soft black calf. For a less formal marriage, it also goes very well a classical suit, with jacket rigorously monopetto, without clefts, with pockets to fillet and not to patch, in combed fabric, with gilet and pantaloni without lapel. The shirt will have soft collar and long tie, not grey pearl, but in a lower case letter imagination, for instance to point of pin with pochette of white flax in the small pocket. Accessories: thin black stockings, shoes black Oxford, twin to the wrists and flower to the buttonhole.
The bridegroom can also decide to personalize the ceremony with an unpublished touch in the attire. To absolutely avoid the short and clear sock and the tuxedo, proper for an evening of frill or to a dance, but not to a ceremony.
THE TRIP OF WEDDING
You go to an agency and you take brochure on every part of the world and you decide for time, above all if you marry you in the summer. It is the period in which he marries more and the period to which people go in vacations. You can risk not to find place for what you have chosen on the brochure.
THE HAIRDRESSER
It confirms to your hairdresser of trust the date of your marriage so he/she won't take other appointments for that day and you/he/she can be to your submit disposizione.Quando you to a coiffeur not forgotten to show him the suit (also in photo) so that to be able to foresee the effect of the hair style in combination.
2 MONTHS BEFORE
TESTS DRESSED AND ACCESSORIES
Remember you that once taken the measures won't have to fatten up neither to grow thin! The tests are generally three or four. It needs to also choose the intimate and the shoes (if you can walk us a po for house before the marriage the foot you/he/she will already have gotten used to the shoe). The bag is to avoid in the religious marriage: the hands have to entirely support the bouquet. All of this that can serve to his/her bride is guarded from his/her/their mother or from a friend. In the civil marriage instead the bag is almost necessary and dev'essere in shade with the suit. The stockings have to possibly draw near to the color of the suit and they have to be impalpable. The day of the wedding to verify to have a pair of backup stockings. The hands don't have to be in some way ringed, but free to receive the faith. The engagement ring can be worn to the reception. Only granted jewels, a thin choker in pearls or platinum and small earrings of diamond. The gloves confer importance to the suit: short to the wrist or long to the elbow, of end or kidskin, in tulle or shaves. Not you forget that after the entry in the church you/they must have supported on the inginocchiatoio close to the bouquet. Remember you that the tradition wants: a lent thing, a given as a present thing, a blue thing, an old thing and a new thing. Besides a banknote in the shoe brings money!!!!
TO SEND THE SHARES
It is the moment to send the shares, people are had to organize. Not insert the bigliettino of the list of wedding in the share (it is of bad taste). The same guests will ask if you have deposited a list or no.
THE LIST OF WEDDING
It is advisable to deposit a list of wedding to avoid duplicates, to not only have pleasant gifts to you but also for the one who has to face the problem of thing to give you. For first thing you decide that kind of gifts you want to receive (home, appliances, etc.) and prepared an informal list of the objects that you want to put in list. Then you will go you to the shop and the manager it will help you to choose. You deposit the list before the shares arrive. The people will hardly arrive they will start to ask you some gift.
THE WITNESSES
For the law they are enough only two witnesses. It is common custom to choose four of them or even you are. They have to be of age and their only appointment is the signature on the book at the end of the ceremony that guarantees legality. But the affective appointment goes over the formal appointment. You try to know if the person that you have chosen desires to cover this role. Also choose so that us anybody doesn't remain badly.
1 MONTH BEFORE
THE TEST FROM THE HAIRDRESSER
Around one month first your hairdresser will summon you for the test of the hair style and the makeup abreast of the suit that you have chosen.
TO DECIDE THE MENU
If you have not decided the menù when you have booked the restaurant it is the moment to do him/it. You can decide a base menù of fish, of alone meat or fish and meat. You will so also decide the price. The prices of the press of the menù and the decorations of the tables that are able not to be inclusive also arrange.
THE FAITHS
Now it is the time of the faiths. At times a witness gives her. The pad of the faiths is mandatory, it is possible that I/you/he/she lend him/it to you some friend that is gotten married already, otherwise it is purchased where you have purchased the suit or in the shops of bomboniere.
2 WEEKS BEFORE
THE GUESTS' CONFIRMATIONS
It misses really little. Many will already have given you answer if they will come or no to your marriage, but someone will be still in perhaps or you/he/she won't be made to feel. Calls you, making to understand that the refreshing one wants a certain answer.
1 WEEK BEFORE
YOU DETAIL WITH PHOTOGRAPHER
You serve a jump as the photographer to define the details on your photographic service. You will choose together the places where you will go off your photos.
TO CONFIRM THE NUMBER OF THE GUESTS IS TO ORGANIZE THE PLACES Á. TAVOLA
Around a week before (it depends on the restaurant) the manager wants to know the exact number of the guests to the lunch. Contemporarily you will have to fix the places to table. It is common custom to assign the places, avoiding that someone is to table with unknown people or indesiderate. Move you with prudence in the choice not to make to pass an ugly day to anybody.
WEEKEND BEFORE
REST
The last week end before the great day is of rest, obviously if you are not back with the preparations. Rest and enough.
3 DAYS BEFORE
THE WEDDING GOWN ARRIVES
The wedding gown arrives, stretched and manufactured. It is a bulky po…
PARTY ON THE PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT
Last day of job before the vacations. They are up to you 15 days for law of matrimonial dismissal. You organize a small refreshment for the colleagues. You deliver a sacchettino of sugared almonds to each.
2 DAYS BEFORE
GOODBYE Á. THE BACHELORHOOD È Á. THE SPINSTERHOOD
If you have intention to celebrate the goodbye to the bachelorhood and the spinsterhood I recommend you not to organize him/it the day not to get tired too much you before and not to have an aspect I get tired later the day. To you the choice on thing to do with the friends or the friends: a pizza, a supper, disco, etc, the choice is ample.
BEAUTICIAN
The depilation and the pedicure it is clearly mandatory. The manicure, he generally, devotes time the morning of the marriage. The hands are in the foreground and they have to be perfect.
THE DAY BEFORE
The day before you won't have to do a lot. Relax and no stresses are the words of order. You will have only to define the few particular that you/they remain. If you will very probably deliver the bombonieres during the lunch the refreshing one he/she will ask you to deliver him her the day before.
THE SAME DAY
Here, finally the great day and all you/he/she has arrived they will be around you: the hairdresser, the photographer, the florist that the bouquet will deliver you. The car arrives….. Everything is ready can go…..!!!!!!!!
1 MONTH LATER
THE TICKETS OF THANKS
Bentornati!!! You have returned from the trip of wedding, relaxed and rested. The last appointment that he/she remains you is to send the bigliettinis of thanks to all those people that have made you a gift or the wishes or a telegram.
1 YEAR BEFORE
THE CHURCH
The first footstep to be done is to choose the church whether to get married you (clearly for a religious marriage). Every church has its procedure to follow and its calendar marriages. If not you desire to get married you in your parish you have to book you one year before. Once naturally booked the church the date has officially fixed!!!
THE HOUSE
If you have intention to purchase the house in which to go to live, at least one year before you have to conclude the contract of purchase, so you will have the time to do some inside job and to purchase the suitable furniture that at times have long times of delivery.
THE GUESTS' LIST
You word a first list of the guests. It will serve you to give an indicative number to the restaurant.
THE RESTAURANT
After having compiled an approximate list of the guests you can choose the restaurant with the proper room for your demands. If you are able you try to find not a restaurant very away from the church. Not the guests always feel like making so many kilometers.
10 months Before
THE PHOTOGRAPHER
The choice of the photographer cannot be improvised. You contact with advance a professional, viewing his/her precedents jobs. Considered that every photographer can realize a service a day and if you/he/she is already hocked in another marriage you/he/she cannot follow you. Generally the services are of 80/100 photos of various format and the films hard around mezz'ora. You try even to get from your photographer the promise that can be in your album some photos besides the canonical layings of the salient moments particular snatched of hidden: an expressive close-up of his/her/their bride, the weeping of the mother of the bridegroom, the cake on the whole face of your smaller little sister etc... an album with these moments will be really complete. You ask whose the ownership of the photos is. Many photographers don't surrender the rights on the photos that do. This means that the ownership of the photos (copyright) he/she remains to them. In practice, they holds back the negative ones and so you will be forced to return from them for possible reprints. It is illegal to reproduce images of which the copyright is not possessed.
COURSE OF PREPARATION Á. THE MARRIAGE
Who wants to get married in the church it has to obligatorily follow the course of preparation to the marriage. You follows in her parish or in his parish or in another parish with the void one it hinders some priest. The course lasts around 2 months, 1 time to week (but it varies from parish parish). The frequency is obligatory. I recommend you to follow him/it 10 months before (in line with the calendars of the parish) because from here all the turns they depart for then the documents.
6 MONTHS BEFORE
THE DOCUMENTS
Concluded the course of preparation to the marriage the priest it will release you a form (to the priest you will already have delivered the certificates of baptism and confirmation of both.). With such form he takes in common appointment for the oath. To remember himself/herself/themselves that from the oath it needs to marry himself/herself/themselves within 6 months and that the commune posts your publications for about 2 weeks (it has to remain published for 2 Sundays). After the publication it needs to bring the sheet of the publications in his parish if the course of preparation to the marriage has been taken near her parish (or vice versa). Here you/they must have exposed for 15 days. After 15 days the publications of the commune and the parish are brought in the parish where the course is followed. Here you/he/she will be filled out a form that must have brought in vicariato. From the vicariato it brings him the all in the parish where he/she gets married us.
RENTAL OF THE AUTO
The auto of his/her/their bride can be also the good auto of dad or a particularly near friend but the custom he/she would like a beautiful auto of epoch to rental with so much of driver in livery or even a carriage with horses and everything. In effects everything depends on the style that he/she is wanted to give to his/her own marriage. The main point is that the good sense and the good taste prevail. To the guide you/he/she can sit a brother of his/her/their bride or a friend of the couple or a driver professional if the auto has been taken to rental. The decoration discreet dev'essere: a floral composition to be systematized on the back lunotto and nothing more. On board of the auto they will sit, besides the driver, his/her bride accompanied by his/her/their father. From the church to the place of reception, his/her mole-bridegroom can take the guide of the auto, but you/he/she is not obligatory.
THE WEDDING GOWN
The wedding gown is a choice main point, it is the image of the marriage. The shops will make you measure their models and then your suit you/he/she will be manufactured around 2 months before the great day. An analysis of his/her own person will help to individualize the points to valorize and also the defects to be hidden. To try to camouflage the wide sides a suit can slightly be used flared and cut under the breast; the thinnest can dress fluid suits instead, from the slipped line; very wide and fluffy skirts are forbidden to the very low brides instead. In the town hall it is preferable the short suit, perfect the suit, also pant, in the tones of the white, of the cream, of the ivory, of the écru or crayon; who will want him/it, it will be able nevertheless to dress the long suit. The definitive choice has to happen at least three months before the marriage, for possible retouches to the suit and for the choice of the accessories: stockings, shoes, lingerie, gloves, veil, bouquet, possible small earrings. It is here also well to start to look for him/it for time and to let from his/her/their mother to be accompanied, from his/her/their sister or from the friend of the heart, but remembered you that the bridegroom doesn't have to see the wedding dress before the ceremony.
5 MONTHS BEFORE
THE GUESTS' LIST
To this point it needs to word a true list of the guests. To skim or to detail the first sort when it missed one year. This total number will serve from now on you for bomboniere, shares and the whole rest.
I RENT HOUSE
If you have not bought a house this it is the moment to look for the house in lease. You scatter around the voice between your entourage of friends and relatives and you buy specialized newspapers.
BOMBONIERE E SHARES
Here is the moment to choose bomboniere and shares. The bombonieres, distinguish generally him in,: great bomboniere for the guests to the lunch (one to family); averages for people of respect but that you won't invite to lunch and I am sacchettini with a small oggettino; the sacchettinis that you will give not guests to the various people. The pouch of the white sugared almonds and in odd number (3 or 5), dev'essere accompanied by a bigliettino with the names of the bridegrooms, for first that of her. If you desire they are also there the segnapostos that you will put to table. Particular bombonieres to the witnesses and his/her parents are normally delivered. The shares must be delivered or expeditious one to family. With the invitation for the one who you want to invite to the marriage, only the share with the address of the church to whom will come only in the church or to whom want to make to know that you get married you. The times of delivery of the bombonieres and shares it varies from shop to shop.
3 MONTHS BEFORE
FLORAL DECORATIONS AND BOUQUET
The flowers damage an important contribution to the atmosphere of the marriage. Turn to your florist of trust or you look for a florist that knows how to satisfy your demands. You choose the decoration for the church (if you know the couple that he/she gets married him in the same church in the same day you can divide the expenses); the decoration of the front door of his/her/their bride and the bouquet. Everything has to be in tuning, the same flowers are possibly chosen or at least the same colors. The bouquet is ago the last homage that the fiancé to the future bride; it is him to choose him/it and to deliver him/it to house of his/her/their bride, to a narrow relative. In this last case his/her bride, received hardly not the bouquet, you/he/she unthreads a flower of it (white) that you/he/she inserts to the buttonhole of the jacket of the bridegroom. A round and compact bouquet, to small flowers, well it will suit him for a short suit; for the long one, an open and voluminous bouquet or an only flower tightened by ribbons; for one with trailing, a bouquet ricadente; for the suit, a bunch to bundle. Amplissima the choice of the flowers, from the roses to the tulips, up to the small flowers of the fruit trees, to the sunflowers, to the flowers of field. Two the traditions respect to the final fate of the bouquet: the first one wants that at the end of the reception his/her bride launches him/it behind if at random among all the unmarried girls (who will pick him/it up you/he/she should be gotten married within the year); the second wants the bouquet to be brought by the bridegrooms to an altar (possibly of a madonna) immediately after the ceremony in the church and before the bridegrooms reach the saloon with the guests. Dried or turned into pot-pourri it will be a beautiful memory of that day.
THE BRIDEGROOM SUIT
Here is the moment also for him to choose the suit that will bring that day. For a formal ceremony, between the morning and the 18, with his/her bride in white and long suit, the bridegroom should wear the tight, and so his/her fathers, the witnesses and his/her brothers. The tight is composed from a jacket in fresh wool, grey anthracite or black to long tails, that it marks the life and band the sides, always laced. The pantalonis are to lines grigie and black; the gilet, in double breast with revers, it is in light cloth, grey clear (never imagination). The shirt will have double cuffs, I closed from twin, rigid neck, shot starched and raised again angles. The tie will be grey to plastron, stopped by a pin with pearl. In alternative, there is the half tight, of same cut, but without tails. In this case they are not anticipated neither gloves in grey chamois, neither the hat to cylinder, essential in the classical tight.
The stockings will be black or anthracite, in cotton or silk and to the knee, with shoes laced in soft black calf. For a less formal marriage, it also goes very well a classical suit, with jacket rigorously monopetto, without clefts, with pockets to fillet and not to patch, in combed fabric, with gilet and pantaloni without lapel. The shirt will have soft collar and long tie, not grey pearl, but in a lower case letter imagination, for instance to point of pin with pochette of white flax in the small pocket. Accessories: thin black stockings, shoes black Oxford, twin to the wrists and flower to the buttonhole.
The bridegroom can also decide to personalize the ceremony with an unpublished touch in the attire. To absolutely avoid the short and clear sock and the tuxedo, proper for an evening of frill or to a dance, but not to a ceremony.
THE TRIP OF WEDDING
You go to an agency and you take brochure on every part of the world and you decide for time, above all if you marry you in the summer. It is the period in which he marries more and the period to which people go in vacations. You can risk not to find place for what you have chosen on the brochure.
THE HAIRDRESSER
It confirms to your hairdresser of trust the date of your marriage so he/she won't take other appointments for that day and you/he/she can be to your submit disposizione.Quando you to a coiffeur not forgotten to show him the suit (also in photo) so that to be able to foresee the effect of the hair style in combination.
2 MONTHS BEFORE
TESTS DRESSED AND ACCESSORIES
Remember you that once taken the measures won't have to fatten up neither to grow thin! The tests are generally three or four. It needs to also choose the intimate and the shoes (if you can walk us a po for house before the marriage the foot you/he/she will already have gotten used to the shoe). The bag is to avoid in the religious marriage: the hands have to entirely support the bouquet. All of this that can serve to his/her bride is guarded from his/her/their mother or from a friend. In the civil marriage instead the bag is almost necessary and dev'essere in shade with the suit. The stockings have to possibly draw near to the color of the suit and they have to be impalpable. The day of the wedding to verify to have a pair of backup stockings. The hands don't have to be in some way ringed, but free to receive the faith. The engagement ring can be worn to the reception. Only granted jewels, a thin choker in pearls or platinum and small earrings of diamond. The gloves confer importance to the suit: short to the wrist or long to the elbow, of end or kidskin, in tulle or shaves. Not you forget that after the entry in the church you/they must have supported on the inginocchiatoio close to the bouquet. Remember you that the tradition wants: a lent thing, a given as a present thing, a blue thing, an old thing and a new thing. Besides a banknote in the shoe brings money!!!!
TO SEND THE SHARES
It is the moment to send the shares, people are had to organize. Not insert the bigliettino of the list of wedding in the share (it is of bad taste). The same guests will ask if you have deposited a list or no.
THE LIST OF WEDDING
It is advisable to deposit a list of wedding to avoid duplicates, to not only have pleasant gifts to you but also for the one who has to face the problem of thing to give you. For first thing you decide that kind of gifts you want to receive (home, appliances, etc.) and prepared an informal list of the objects that you want to put in list. Then you will go you to the shop and the manager it will help you to choose. You deposit the list before the shares arrive. The people will hardly arrive they will start to ask you some gift.
THE WITNESSES
For the law they are enough only two witnesses. It is common custom to choose four of them or even you are. They have to be of age and their only appointment is the signature on the book at the end of the ceremony that guarantees legality. But the affective appointment goes over the formal appointment. You try to know if the person that you have chosen desires to cover this role. Also choose so that us anybody doesn't remain badly.
1 MONTH BEFORE
THE TEST FROM THE HAIRDRESSER
Around one month first your hairdresser will summon you for the test of the hair style and the makeup abreast of the suit that you have chosen.
TO DECIDE THE MENU
If you have not decided the menù when you have booked the restaurant it is the moment to do him/it. You can decide a base menù of fish, of alone meat or fish and meat. You will so also decide the price. The prices of the press of the menù and the decorations of the tables that are able not to be inclusive also arrange.
THE FAITHS
Now it is the time of the faiths. At times a witness gives her. The pad of the faiths is mandatory, it is possible that I/you/he/she lend him/it to you some friend that is gotten married already, otherwise it is purchased where you have purchased the suit or in the shops of bomboniere.
2 WEEKS BEFORE
THE GUESTS' CONFIRMATIONS
It misses really little. Many will already have given you answer if they will come or no to your marriage, but someone will be still in perhaps or you/he/she won't be made to feel. Calls you, making to understand that the refreshing one wants a certain answer.
1 WEEK BEFORE
YOU DETAIL WITH PHOTOGRAPHER
You serve a jump as the photographer to define the details on your photographic service. You will choose together the places where you will go off your photos.
TO CONFIRM THE NUMBER OF THE GUESTS IS TO ORGANIZE THE PLACES Á. TAVOLA
Around a week before (it depends on the restaurant) the manager wants to know the exact number of the guests to the lunch. Contemporarily you will have to fix the places to table. It is common custom to assign the places, avoiding that someone is to table with unknown people or indesiderate. Move you with prudence in the choice not to make to pass an ugly day to anybody.
WEEKEND BEFORE
REST
The last week end before the great day is of rest, obviously if you are not back with the preparations. Rest and enough.
3 DAYS BEFORE
THE WEDDING GOWN ARRIVES
The wedding gown arrives, stretched and manufactured. It is a bulky po…
PARTY ON THE PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT
Last day of job before the vacations. They are up to you 15 days for law of matrimonial dismissal. You organize a small refreshment for the colleagues. You deliver a sacchettino of sugared almonds to each.
2 DAYS BEFORE
GOODBYE Á. THE BACHELORHOOD È Á. THE SPINSTERHOOD
If you have intention to celebrate the goodbye to the bachelorhood and the spinsterhood I recommend you not to organize him/it the day not to get tired too much you before and not to have an aspect I get tired later the day. To you the choice on thing to do with the friends or the friends: a pizza, a supper, disco, etc, the choice is ample.
BEAUTICIAN
The depilation and the pedicure it is clearly mandatory. The manicure, he generally, devotes time the morning of the marriage. The hands are in the foreground and they have to be perfect.
THE DAY BEFORE
The day before you won't have to do a lot. Relax and no stresses are the words of order. You will have only to define the few particular that you/they remain. If you will very probably deliver the bombonieres during the lunch the refreshing one he/she will ask you to deliver him her the day before.
THE SAME DAY
Here, finally the great day and all you/he/she has arrived they will be around you: the hairdresser, the photographer, the florist that the bouquet will deliver you. The car arrives….. Everything is ready can go…..!!!!!!!!
1 MONTH LATER
THE TICKETS OF THANKS
Bentornati!!! You have returned from the trip of wedding, relaxed and rested. The last appointment that he/she remains you is to send the bigliettinis of thanks to all those people that have made you a gift or the wishes or a telegram.
Music and songs for the church
There is nothing better than music to arouse emotions and create atmosphere at a time like marriage, already rich in feeling. Churches often have a body, and will not be difficult, perhaps asking the suggestion parish priest, who provide the sounds.
A different choice may be to replace the classic sound of the melody, between which you could switch or accompanying notes of violin. It is not difficult to organize a trio or a string quartet, or give him a sweet flute, the harpsichord, a group of guitars.
The female voice is always a sweet complement, or you can invite two voices or an opera chorus. If attended in a parish, a choice certainly felt real and could be to sing the chorus of the parish itself, certainly not composed of professionals but certainly more involved.
Whatever your choice, the music should scan and highlight the most significant moments of the ceremony in the Church, in particular:
* The arrival and the entrance of the bride;
* Exchange of rings;
* The offertory;
* Communion;
* Signatures and the exit of the spouses.
The choice of music to be performed during the religious ceremony have to adapt license to which you chose for your ceremony.
For the wedding in classic style, here are some suggestions.
Entering church of the bride: a solemn music, cheerful, which expresses the emotion of the moment.
Wagner, the Lohengrin Wedding March;
Mendelssohn, Marcia wedding;
Mozart, Marcia wedding from Le nozze di Figaro;
Handel, Minuet No. 2 from watermusic;
Charpentier, Prelude to Te Deum;
Bach Choir of 147 cantata for chorus and organ;
Palestrina, songs of the Magnificat.
Communion: A sweet music, melodies, which marks the moment of recollection. The musical movement is the most suitable adage.
Albinoni, Adagio in G Minor (although in reality it was originally composed as a funeral march);
Bach, Ave Maria;
Bach, Adagio from Toccata and Fugue in D minor;
Gounod, Ave Maria;
Schubert, Ave Maria;
Mozart, Romance de Eine kleine Nachtmusik;
Mozart, Ave verum corpus;
Schumann, I dream of love;
Handel, Largo from Serse.
Leaving the church: the music lively, cheerful and joyful.
Mendelssohn, Marcia wedding;
Mozart, Jubilate, Exultate, by putting K437;
Vivaldi, Sonata No. 6 from Il Pastor Fido;
Brahms, Choral from S. Antonio;
Beethoven, The Choir from Mount of Olives;
Handel, Aleluia.
A different choice may be to replace the classic sound of the melody, between which you could switch or accompanying notes of violin. It is not difficult to organize a trio or a string quartet, or give him a sweet flute, the harpsichord, a group of guitars.
The female voice is always a sweet complement, or you can invite two voices or an opera chorus. If attended in a parish, a choice certainly felt real and could be to sing the chorus of the parish itself, certainly not composed of professionals but certainly more involved.
Whatever your choice, the music should scan and highlight the most significant moments of the ceremony in the Church, in particular:
* The arrival and the entrance of the bride;
* Exchange of rings;
* The offertory;
* Communion;
* Signatures and the exit of the spouses.
The choice of music to be performed during the religious ceremony have to adapt license to which you chose for your ceremony.
For the wedding in classic style, here are some suggestions.
Entering church of the bride: a solemn music, cheerful, which expresses the emotion of the moment.
Wagner, the Lohengrin Wedding March;
Mendelssohn, Marcia wedding;
Mozart, Marcia wedding from Le nozze di Figaro;
Handel, Minuet No. 2 from watermusic;
Charpentier, Prelude to Te Deum;
Bach Choir of 147 cantata for chorus and organ;
Palestrina, songs of the Magnificat.
Communion: A sweet music, melodies, which marks the moment of recollection. The musical movement is the most suitable adage.
Albinoni, Adagio in G Minor (although in reality it was originally composed as a funeral march);
Bach, Ave Maria;
Bach, Adagio from Toccata and Fugue in D minor;
Gounod, Ave Maria;
Schubert, Ave Maria;
Mozart, Romance de Eine kleine Nachtmusik;
Mozart, Ave verum corpus;
Schumann, I dream of love;
Handel, Largo from Serse.
Leaving the church: the music lively, cheerful and joyful.
Mendelssohn, Marcia wedding;
Mozart, Jubilate, Exultate, by putting K437;
Vivaldi, Sonata No. 6 from Il Pastor Fido;
Brahms, Choral from S. Antonio;
Beethoven, The Choir from Mount of Olives;
Handel, Aleluia.
The place of the reception
The place of the reception depends a lot on your economic possibilities, there are villas, castles, houses in country and hotels, but the main point is to choose a place that makes the unforgettable marriage for you and for your relatives.
For the choice it will be also useful to appraise the advantages and the against the various typologies of structures for receptions, especially in relationship to your demands.
In the moment in which you have found the most proper place for your demands, you arrange the type of refreshment. You can prepare a standing sideboard, undoubtedly faster and probably less expensive, but surely more tiresome. The sideboard is, generally, more economic because the waiters I don't have to serve to the tables, but they remain behind the table of the sideboard to prepare the courses.
In alternative to the sideboard, you can organize a lunch or a supper, with all the courses that suit him, but with the risk to excessively prolong the times of the marriage. For the most consistent choice, it would be better to keep in mind also the tastes of your relatives and however you can make to also recommend from the refreshing one. These you/he/she has organized many more marriages of you, however, always remember you that you are you to pay and him to pocket your money. Finally, only when you will have defined all, putting black on white, you will pour him a deposit.
Now we pass to the most amusing moment in the organization of the marriage: the wedding dress. The stylists propose manifold models from the different tonalities, that go from the traditional white to the color gold, or to the more eccentrincos wedding dress in red. Just for this motive, not entrances in the first studio that happens you to draught to wear all the wedding dresses of the shop, because you won't do anything else other than to confuse you the ideas or you will find again you with a wedding gown that others (mother or mother-in-law) you/they have chosen for you.
But attention: not always the model that more you like it is that that stocking better. You will have to consider many aspects of your physicist, that, in base to the necessity, you will have to put in prominence or to camouflage; for instance, if you have a prosperous breast you are not able of certain to wear a bodice to balconcino, that, besides making to appear you inadequate, it would hinder you in the movements. Convenience is important, because that day you will be busy a lot of things. Once chosen the wedding dress, you fix at least three appointments for the tests, of which, one, at least a few days before the wedding and if really you want to be calm, you check everything really the day before…… he/she is never known.
shoes marriage The accessories (shoes, intimate and jewels) to wear you can choose them in the same studio where you have taken the wedding dress, so you save time. But if you want to also save money, I recommend you to excessively choose not some shoes particular, for instance white or with proper finishing touch exclusively for the wedding dress, so that you can also use her for other occasions. Instead, as it regards the jewel, the etiquette would forbid him/it, but the fashion is changed, therefore green light. Nevertheless, the suggestion is not to take something showy, because it would sway the attention from you; with the point light gone on the classical one and if you are superstitious, you remember that every pearl equivale to a tear to be poured. The ideal would be a jewel suitable to the style of the suit. A last thing: obviously no purse!
In short I am to do for organizing a marriage of it of things, therefore good fun!
For the choice it will be also useful to appraise the advantages and the against the various typologies of structures for receptions, especially in relationship to your demands.
In the moment in which you have found the most proper place for your demands, you arrange the type of refreshment. You can prepare a standing sideboard, undoubtedly faster and probably less expensive, but surely more tiresome. The sideboard is, generally, more economic because the waiters I don't have to serve to the tables, but they remain behind the table of the sideboard to prepare the courses.
In alternative to the sideboard, you can organize a lunch or a supper, with all the courses that suit him, but with the risk to excessively prolong the times of the marriage. For the most consistent choice, it would be better to keep in mind also the tastes of your relatives and however you can make to also recommend from the refreshing one. These you/he/she has organized many more marriages of you, however, always remember you that you are you to pay and him to pocket your money. Finally, only when you will have defined all, putting black on white, you will pour him a deposit.
Now we pass to the most amusing moment in the organization of the marriage: the wedding dress. The stylists propose manifold models from the different tonalities, that go from the traditional white to the color gold, or to the more eccentrincos wedding dress in red. Just for this motive, not entrances in the first studio that happens you to draught to wear all the wedding dresses of the shop, because you won't do anything else other than to confuse you the ideas or you will find again you with a wedding gown that others (mother or mother-in-law) you/they have chosen for you.
But attention: not always the model that more you like it is that that stocking better. You will have to consider many aspects of your physicist, that, in base to the necessity, you will have to put in prominence or to camouflage; for instance, if you have a prosperous breast you are not able of certain to wear a bodice to balconcino, that, besides making to appear you inadequate, it would hinder you in the movements. Convenience is important, because that day you will be busy a lot of things. Once chosen the wedding dress, you fix at least three appointments for the tests, of which, one, at least a few days before the wedding and if really you want to be calm, you check everything really the day before…… he/she is never known.
shoes marriage The accessories (shoes, intimate and jewels) to wear you can choose them in the same studio where you have taken the wedding dress, so you save time. But if you want to also save money, I recommend you to excessively choose not some shoes particular, for instance white or with proper finishing touch exclusively for the wedding dress, so that you can also use her for other occasions. Instead, as it regards the jewel, the etiquette would forbid him/it, but the fashion is changed, therefore green light. Nevertheless, the suggestion is not to take something showy, because it would sway the attention from you; with the point light gone on the classical one and if you are superstitious, you remember that every pearl equivale to a tear to be poured. The ideal would be a jewel suitable to the style of the suit. A last thing: obviously no purse!
In short I am to do for organizing a marriage of it of things, therefore good fun!
HOW TO ORGANIZE A MARRIAGE
If you have decided to take the fateful step in the direction of marriage, there remains that organize everything, even the smallest details, because the wedding is perfect. See this tutorial, you can find practical tips for organizing your wedding, easily and inexpensively.
The first advice is not to make the most beautiful day of your life is preceded by days, those devoted to the preparations, stressful and anxious: is your wedding, so get well and help advise you on who is next, but be you always choose and decide.
First, to arrange a marriage, one must choose the date, although early may be indicative only, begin to identify the month and two or three possible dates. This will help you to select and book the same place of the ceremony and the church. To reconcile the two things can not be far from easy: it may happen that the church or the local refreshment are available both on the same day. Therefore, it would be preferable to begin your preparations at least a year before. We need to discuss with the pastor, even for premarital course, or with the mayor of your municipality (although to prepare the necessary documentation does not require much time) and at the same time to compare the willingness of the church with the availability of the site for refreshment, and reserve both.
When choosing the date of your marriage, take care not to create connections with other events, perhaps with other weddings of friends or relatives.
The first advice is not to make the most beautiful day of your life is preceded by days, those devoted to the preparations, stressful and anxious: is your wedding, so get well and help advise you on who is next, but be you always choose and decide.
First, to arrange a marriage, one must choose the date, although early may be indicative only, begin to identify the month and two or three possible dates. This will help you to select and book the same place of the ceremony and the church. To reconcile the two things can not be far from easy: it may happen that the church or the local refreshment are available both on the same day. Therefore, it would be preferable to begin your preparations at least a year before. We need to discuss with the pastor, even for premarital course, or with the mayor of your municipality (although to prepare the necessary documentation does not require much time) and at the same time to compare the willingness of the church with the availability of the site for refreshment, and reserve both.
When choosing the date of your marriage, take care not to create connections with other events, perhaps with other weddings of friends or relatives.
HOW TO ORGANIZE A MARRIAGE: accessories of the Bride
The test more difficult for the bride is to address the whole of the day of marriage, without losing pieces on the streets. Therefore, we must obtain all necessary steps to address any need that might occur.
Of course, the bride is not wearing the bag, but to bring everything you need, procuratevene one, not cumbersome but capacious, which keep close at hand, entrusting the mother or a friend.
Starting from the tip, bring the Phard, the Eye Shadow and the lipstick, that is what we need to make adjustments during the day and do not forget the tissues, which will serve to dry the sweat from the face before ripassare the trick. If you want a council to save space in your bag and bring everything you need to make up, go in perfumery and ask for samples of makeup, which are practically miniature packaging, very useful, say that it is committed to an emergency just for the wedding, so will be more wide sleeves.
The papers for the trick will be very useful to dry the sweat on the rest of the body. sposaInoltre to avoid those antiestetiche sweat stains under the arms, if dressed as a bride allows, you can use strips of adhesive antisudore, which serve to dry his sweat, not to be absorbed by the clothes. In any case, bring the deodorant and perfume.
For the hair, you'll need a comb or brush and many clip locks to punish the rebels.
Do not forget the lime for nails, a pair of socks reserve, a packet of tissue paper and the first aid box containing the patches, to be used even if the shoes give new problems, and medicines used regularly, as analgesics for headaches or antihistamines.
Of course, the bride is not wearing the bag, but to bring everything you need, procuratevene one, not cumbersome but capacious, which keep close at hand, entrusting the mother or a friend.
Starting from the tip, bring the Phard, the Eye Shadow and the lipstick, that is what we need to make adjustments during the day and do not forget the tissues, which will serve to dry the sweat from the face before ripassare the trick. If you want a council to save space in your bag and bring everything you need to make up, go in perfumery and ask for samples of makeup, which are practically miniature packaging, very useful, say that it is committed to an emergency just for the wedding, so will be more wide sleeves.
The papers for the trick will be very useful to dry the sweat on the rest of the body. sposaInoltre to avoid those antiestetiche sweat stains under the arms, if dressed as a bride allows, you can use strips of adhesive antisudore, which serve to dry his sweat, not to be absorbed by the clothes. In any case, bring the deodorant and perfume.
For the hair, you'll need a comb or brush and many clip locks to punish the rebels.
Do not forget the lime for nails, a pair of socks reserve, a packet of tissue paper and the first aid box containing the patches, to be used even if the shoes give new problems, and medicines used regularly, as analgesics for headaches or antihistamines.
These famous and proverbs on wedding
"Marriage is popular because it combines the biggest temptations with the greatest opportunity" - George Bernard Shaw
"The bigamy involves a wife too, the same is true of monogamy" - Anonymous
"Who is for the sake piglia for rabies is Scapigliati" - Anonymous
"The love that no updates every day becomes a habit and turns into slavery" - GK Gibran
"An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have: more you become older, the more he is interested in you" - Agatha Christie
"A woman asks your husband happy if only to ignore" - A. Schnitzler
"Women who know Latin is a rare thing, but refrained from taking married" - the popular proverb
"We should only marry a beautiful woman, otherwise there is no hope to discard" - Danny Kaye
"A man who speaks ill of marriage or has not had a woman who wanted or had" - Jacques Marchand
"Women are always anxious to marriage in urging the blades. Is to human love or vengeance" - Gustave Vapereau
"Marriage is like a mousetrap, those who are inside want to leave, and others we turn around to enter" - Giovanni Verga
"The bigamy involves a wife too, the same is true of monogamy" - Anonymous
"Who is for the sake piglia for rabies is Scapigliati" - Anonymous
"The love that no updates every day becomes a habit and turns into slavery" - GK Gibran
"An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have: more you become older, the more he is interested in you" - Agatha Christie
"A woman asks your husband happy if only to ignore" - A. Schnitzler
"Women who know Latin is a rare thing, but refrained from taking married" - the popular proverb
"We should only marry a beautiful woman, otherwise there is no hope to discard" - Danny Kaye
"A man who speaks ill of marriage or has not had a woman who wanted or had" - Jacques Marchand
"Women are always anxious to marriage in urging the blades. Is to human love or vengeance" - Gustave Vapereau
"Marriage is like a mousetrap, those who are inside want to leave, and others we turn around to enter" - Giovanni Verga
Wedding: why
"... I accept you as my / or wife / o. I promise you are always faithful, in joy and in sorrow, in health and disease, and to love and honor all the days of my life"
What are the reasons that lead many couples to say these beautiful words in front of an audience commossa relatives and friends? What is pushing to get married, in a society that now also accepts coexistence as choice of two people who love?
The word "marriage", according to a widespread vision, comes from the Latin munus marriage, "the task of the mother", or even Mother munere, "protect the mother." The etymology indicate a direct relationship between the covenant of love of two (man and woman in original) and the task of parenthood that it springs. In any case, the use of the term with reference to union wedding was developed with the Roman law which gave recognition to the body and complex situations of social capital linked to matrimonium.
Marriage, despite the profound changes that have been in social life, leading to abandonment of many conventions and traditions, still maintains its strength and its charm.
Why?
The most obvious answer would be: "Why we love !"... but not only ...
Like few other events of our lives, marriage is a sacred rite, whose profound symbolic significance goes beyond reason and in which, despite everything, we have not stopped believing.
The marriage has become aware and accept aloud the rules, say aloud the fateful yes, take unequivocal commitment to spend the rest of their lives next to the person loved in the face of people who held more: the Faced then to the whole society. And to do this you must have acquired a great sense of responsibility and awareness.
The Italian constitution states, with the Article 29 that "The Republic recognizes the rights of the family as a natural society founded on marriage ..."
Marriage is thus the decision to start a family, and the family is and remains the only fixed point in a world where so many lost values, it is hard to find others who replace them.
What are the reasons that lead many couples to say these beautiful words in front of an audience commossa relatives and friends? What is pushing to get married, in a society that now also accepts coexistence as choice of two people who love?
The word "marriage", according to a widespread vision, comes from the Latin munus marriage, "the task of the mother", or even Mother munere, "protect the mother." The etymology indicate a direct relationship between the covenant of love of two (man and woman in original) and the task of parenthood that it springs. In any case, the use of the term with reference to union wedding was developed with the Roman law which gave recognition to the body and complex situations of social capital linked to matrimonium.
Marriage, despite the profound changes that have been in social life, leading to abandonment of many conventions and traditions, still maintains its strength and its charm.
Why?
The most obvious answer would be: "Why we love !"... but not only ...
Like few other events of our lives, marriage is a sacred rite, whose profound symbolic significance goes beyond reason and in which, despite everything, we have not stopped believing.
The marriage has become aware and accept aloud the rules, say aloud the fateful yes, take unequivocal commitment to spend the rest of their lives next to the person loved in the face of people who held more: the Faced then to the whole society. And to do this you must have acquired a great sense of responsibility and awareness.
The Italian constitution states, with the Article 29 that "The Republic recognizes the rights of the family as a natural society founded on marriage ..."
Marriage is thus the decision to start a family, and the family is and remains the only fixed point in a world where so many lost values, it is hard to find others who replace them.
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