martedì 28 ottobre 2008

The choice of day and month in which to get married: traditions and superstitions

Among the many choices to be done to get married, is a fundamental one day and the month in which a convolare wedding.
Obviously, the first factor to influence the choice will be dictated by heart: if you are people who love the warm season, in need of the sun and heat to awaken their senses and give the best of itself, certainly choose between your date the months of April and September. If you love instead of Autumn and romantic atmosphere of Winter, if the cold there is fear and snow fascinates you, choose your day between the months of October and March.
Not always, however, can only listen to the instinct more variables come into play in your choice, the first between the availability of the place where the ceremony and celebration that will take place where the reception. Just think for example that some churches in central Rome, there are waiting lists for over a year! And of course in October will be more likely to find available from the Church loved by children in June.
Another significant factor is the atmosphere of the place where you will spend the honeymoon is surely desirable not to pass the much-desired Honeymoon during the monsoon season!
Curious factor is not understate the choice of day and month when they get married are the beliefs and popular superstitions. There are many proverbs, rhymes and such a connection, some of them even contradictory .. A belief identified Monday as the day that brings good health, as propitious day dedicated to Luna, the goddess of astro and wives. Tuesday is the day of wealth safe (thus contradicting that of Venus and Mars are not married and do not start "), on Wednesday, one day very favorable, while Thursday will bring the bride of sorrows. And if for Christians Friday is the day of fasting and penance torture, and therefore not suitable for convivial moments and "goderecci", for a non-believer this is the day dedicated to Venus, the goddess of love. Saturday, the day the "most popular" by couples to celebrate their marriage for practical reasons, is considered by the popular superstition most unfortunate day for a wedding convolare. In past centuries, especially in countries, marriages are usually celebrated on Sunday, while today the priests prefer not to celebrate weddings on this day, in order to devote entirely to the faithful Sunday Mass, and, for celebrations with civil ceremony, mayors or officials Communal not available.
Even the choice of the month in which marry the popular beliefs have a lot to say.
January is a month that brings affection, kindness and faithfulness, February, the month of love, is the best way to take the crucial decision or we will regret not having done so. March "pazzerello reserve is joy that punishment, while April only joy. May not be chosen in any case, while June is the month dedicated to Juno, the goddess of love and protector of the wedding. June will also married to the good fortune to travel a lot, both for land by sea. July hard work and will work to earn a living, while August will ensure a life full of changes. September will fill the spouses of happiness and riches, while October will bring a great deal of love but at the expense of money that will toil to get there. November and December will give happiness, finally, with its snow spouses to ensure eternal love.
There should also marry on the day of the birthday of either spouses. If, instead, the two spouses were born the same day, this is absolutely the best day of the year in which convolare a wedding.
To promote the fate, marriage must be celebrated before sunset.

Nessun commento: