Etiquette of marriage: what touches the bride and what touches the bridegroom

Whatever the choice of the rite of marriage tone, style of the ceremony, the reception and catering, costs to be addressed in order to organize the wedding day will be very high.
In the past, since Roman times, marriage was an opportunity to show off its wealth, and this desire for luxury and pomp often led families to fill the debts and then to ruin. Throughout history, in more than one occasion, were then issued decrees to set limits to these wastes.
Even today many marriages are made in this light, with costs and fortune with hundreds of invited only to be spectators of theater without feeling: good taste and manners off the excesses, every choice must be made with style and finesse and appropriate to the place where the marriage takes place, the type of guests present and the economic opportunities of the spouses.
The families of the couple as they can contribute to the costs to be addressed.
The etiquette of marriage however specifies clearly what are the costs faced by parents of the future bride and groom future.
Her family to enjoy:

* Costs of printing and sending the invitations, and stakes acknowledgments;
* Wedding and confetti;
* Purchase dell'Abate wedding;
* Preparation of support;
* Expenses of the ceremony, including dell'addobbo flower is the Church of receipt;
* Quote for the Church;
* Dresses of damigelle and paggetti;
* Transportation for the bride and his entourage;
* Costs of receipt;
* Music;
* Expenses for the photo.
* Purchase of furniture in the bedroom, with the exception of the mattress.

The bridegroom's family to enjoy instead:

* Purchase of the matrimonial home;
* Furnishing of the matrimonial home except the bedroom;
* Mattress for the bedroom;
* ring wedding;
* Bouquet;
* Flowers for lead story for him and for witnesses;
* Car for which he is conducting its own witnesses at the celebration ceremony;
* The honeymoon.

In reality today, given the excessive costs especially for the purchase of the house, often the two families split the costs.
Very often, in addition, the spouses agree to be giving the honeymoon from friends.